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    Default Need some help in two different scenarios

    Hey so I have two different scenarios I was wondering what you're advice would be.

    1: So I'm pretty sure I've already messed this first situation up but you it is what it is. I've known this girl for a few months now and I've found myself trapped in the friend zone. I made the beginner mistake of misreading some signs and eventually just told her I liked her. If she responded the right way I wouldn't be posting this but I've had girls who are friends before and Id like to think it'd be possible in the future. We've got a similar group of friends so I'm not sure if I should just stop talking to her all together or work out another plan. I know it's an ambiguous situation but I'd like some input from everyone. She knows I've talked to a few other girls so I'm not sure the jealousy things worked out.

    Scenario 2: My neighbor in college asked me to her formal/semi last month and I've texted her now and then. She treats me like a friend and has called me her friend once but I feel like we aren't close enough where I could be in the friend zone. I'm not sure how forward to be. Like I said I have her number but not sure how to play it from here.

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    Default Re: Need some help in two different scenarios

    Situation 1 - Knowing that you talk to other girls might not be enough. She has to see you with them. Often. If you feel like playing games with her, ask her for advice about the other girls. Also, disqualify her. Say that she's an amazing friend, blah blah blah. Get creative and push your luck a bit. This way, you friendzone her. Get that in both of your heads - she might have been the first to do it, but you're making it set in stone. She should start qualifying herself for you down the line. This one you can have fun with and practice gaming.

    Situation 2 - Kino KINO KINO KINO, and KINO. From what I've experienced, it really keeps you out of the friendzone. Don't be afraid to touch and get comfortable. Keep it natural. It might be awkward at first, but stick with it. As for the texts, use them just to meet up. Try not to have full blown conversations, especially if you're not sure where to take them. Look at the thread I put up for text openers and getting her to meet up if you want some ideas:http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...criticize.html

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    Default Re: Need some help in two different scenarios

    Quote Originally Posted by Vicodin24 View Post
    Situation 1 - Knowing that you talk to other girls might not be enough. She has to see you with them. Often. If you feel like playing games with her, ask her for advice about the other girls. Also, disqualify her. Say that she's an amazing friend, blah blah blah. Get creative and push your luck a bit. This way, you friendzone her. Get that in both of your heads - she might have been the first to do it, but you're making it set in stone. She should start qualifying herself for you down the line. This one you can have fun with and practice gaming.
    The only problem with this vicodin is that if she already friendzoned you, you can't try to friendzone her hoping she'll try to qualify. She already put in the zone so saying something like "your such a good friend" is only gonna reinforce the thought that your just another chump in the friendzone. You'll have better luck trying to make her jealous. I was only secessful with this once (back in my AFC days) but i fucked it up and went back into the zone. You just have to ignore her completely, not even look at her, when you're hanging out as a group and flirt with her bestfriend a lot. This is a cheap tactic though and isn't worth the headache.

    Girl number two be forward with her all the way! You're not looking to go as just a friend make sure she understands the terms before hand otherwise you're just wasting your time. You don't have to make it known that you're interested just don't play "The Friend".
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    Default Re: Need some help in two different scenarios

    Quote Originally Posted by Yolo007 View Post
    The only problem with this vicodin is that if she already friendzoned you, you can't try to friendzone her hoping she'll try to qualify. She already put in the zone so saying something like "your such a good friend" is only gonna reinforce the thought that your just another chump in the friendzone. You'll have better luck trying to make her jealous. I was only secessful with this once (back in my AFC days) but i farked it up and went back into the zone. You just have to ignore her completely, not even look at her, when you're hanging out as a group and flirt with her bestfriend a lot. This is a cheap tactic though and isn't worth the headache.

    Girl number two be forward with her all the way! You're not looking to go as just a friend make sure she understands the terms before hand otherwise you're just wasting your time. You don't have to make it known that you're interested just don't play "The Friend".
    Girls friend-zone you because of lack of Kino, sexual Tension, and sexual escalation that on your part. You are not seen as a sexual being in here eyes. By doing the things like yolo said, demonstrating your value by being seen with other girls, gaming other girls in front of her, talking about things you might have going on with other girls, and disqualifying her(this is being used with a double purposein that you stop chasing after her even while being in the friendzone... it helps you mentally, and 2.) She thinks that you are not interested with certainty.)

    When you've done and demonstrated all of the things that were just mentioned, your "friend" will start to see you as a sexual being, and she'll probably even start to wonder why you never escalated with HER. If you get to the stage where you've got her thinking that, it's fairly easy to make the magic happen. You've already demonstrated to her that you're a sexual being, that you're a gentleman, and you already have a connection with her.

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