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    Default said she felt like i tried to hard and no connection

    i had her laughing during the date and made fun of her and we even have the same parent problem. idk what happened because texting and over the phone we were pretty great. any tips to help me have connection in person?
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: said she felt like i tried to hard and no connection

    Sometimes it happens. I believe that perhaps you built too much comfort and skipped attraction (Friendzoned). Sometimes this happens when you text too much and don't flirt enough. Jump through her hoops, etc.

    Also, in person she might have sense lack of congruency with your body language.

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    Default Re: said she felt like i tried to hard and no connection

    yea i have no idea what to do with my body when im around a girl i first meet
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: said she felt like i tried to hard and no connection

    Biggest body language tip you can get is to 'relax'. But red baron has a good body language post, should check it out

    Linking x

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    Default Re: said she felt like i tried to hard and no connection

    @Hope

    r u asking how u can create more connection with her.?

    or

    r u asking how u can connect more physicly with her.?

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    Default Re: said she felt like i tried to hard and no connection

    both during the date. im usually not that touchy of a person when im around other people.
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: said she felt like i tried to hard and no connection

    when did she tell u - she felt u tried too hard.? can u describe the events around the time she said that.?

    actually, can u give us step by step detail - as much as u remember.?

    if she is having fun and u feel connection, this is an odd (frank) reply from her

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    Default Re: said she felt like i tried to hard and no connection

    ok before the date we texted for a week. it was very sexual and she said she wanted me for dessert after she was done with finals. so we met up at this christmas lights thing in our town and walk around she takes some pictures of us and we go to some benches she sits down i sit next to her. i lean forward most of the time. when i finally lean back i put my around her. she seemed to like this she leaned my way more. we got up because she said there were to many people around and she leads me to a more quiet place with not very many people. now this whole time i was making fun of her and teasing her making her laugh. but i never really touched her. so after we sit down for awhile she said shes hungry and called her friends. after we all left for food she didnt even want to sit by me and she told her friends that the date was bad because they all acted weird around me. the next day i just asked her what made the 2nd part of the date so bad and she said i felt like you tried to hard to fit in and i didnt feel a connection.
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: said she felt like i tried to hard and no connection

    hope...

    she's right - u don't fit in with her friends - and u try too hard...

    but u know, man... good - don't see her again. she has some bad morals that one.!

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    Default Re: said she felt like i tried to hard and no connection

    Quote Originally Posted by YOKiTran View Post
    hope...

    she's right - u don't fit in with her friends - and u try too hard...

    but u know, man... good - don't see her again. she has some bad morals that one.!
    YOKiTran... what makes you think she has "bad morals"?
    I can't really see what would make you think that if you could explain a little more.
    .-* WWWEEE *-.


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