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    Default how would you go about this?

    Ok so this 100% gorgeous HB 9 are in the same math class (we are both sneiors in highschool we are both kinda antisocial she doesent talk to anyone and i only have 1 other person i talk to in the class) ive talked to her a few times before during group work (she copied all my answers and we talked a little bit) however she came into my job (a movie theatre) and said hi to me (I let her in with a discount but i do that with alot of people). The next time I saw her I asked her how it was when we were both grabbing a paper she said it was great and that she loved the series. I asked her if she would recomend it after class and she said yeah but then we kinda went seperate ways. I have trouble talking to people i dont know and she kinda intimidates me even tho i always remind myself that shes just a person and have trouble meeting new people because of it. Anyways how would you profesionals go about approaching her and getting an actualy conversation going instead of a few words about homework and a movie

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    Default Re: how would you go about this?

    This pretty much summarizes everything you need to know:

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-approac...g-over-aa.html

    To get some conversations going and whatnot:

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...criticize.html

    As for the actual conversation, ask her questions that get her thinking and bring about an emotional response:

    "If you could be anywhere in the world, except here, where would you be?" - in class

    Dissect her answers, throw in your own opinions, tease her a bit, Kino, etc.

    And, since you're still in high school, you have the perfect question to ask - "where are you applying to college?" Chances are, she won't stop talking about it if you follow up with questions about her prospective major, etc.

    Good luck!
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    palecurls is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: how would you go about this?

    I dont have a problem talking to her I just cant seem to get in an actualy concersation with her, either we walk for 20 seconds I say a few words to her she replies and I go down the stairs and she goes down the hallway or its just a few words during class. I cant seem to get her to stay in one place i guess im trying to say

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    Default Re: how would you go about this?

    The reason you can work up a conversation is because you place her up on a pedestal. When shes in front of you you're acting star struck so you don't know what to say. It doesn't help that shes a shy person either it makes it that much more difficult for you. You need to practice just talking to girls, having conversations about anything. How is she ever going to know you if you can simply talk to her.

    So here's your challenge: (random girls, not ones you're already comfortable with/ the girl you're chasing)
    Day 1 - Say hello to 5 girls
    Day 2 - Pretend to not understand something and ask 3 girls for help in a class
    Day 3 - ask 3 girls a question and develop it into at least a 2 minute conversation
    Day 4 - flirt with 3 girls (only counts if you get them to laugh)
    *Day 4 bonus* do this in front of the girl you're chasing
    Day 5 - have a conversation with and flirt with the girl you're chasing.

    If you do more that's all the better but don't try to much and discourage yourself. The key for you is to take it in step so you can talk to girls better. Here if you need anything else.
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