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    Default How to Approach 2 set in Bar

    I mean a real bar, please do not talk about college bar or some school party, the real world is much different than a college setting.

    What is the best way to walk up to/approach a set at a bar? Usually I've had most success going up to them at the bar to order a drink then just turning my head and running an opener. Sometimes I'll stand outside talking with people next to their table and turn my head, etc.

    What does the forum think is the best place and way at a city bar to approach?

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    Default Re: How to Approach 2 set in Bar

    I kind of do something similar. I really like to make eye contact, smile. Then pass by, stop turn over and deliver an opener. Works well when the eye contact is strong and they smiled back. If not I just go right up confidently and start a conversation.

    And I disagree about the college setting. Essentially the same game different targets. I am at an age where I can experience both and the basics are the basics.

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    Default Re: How to Approach 2 set in Bar

    Way kind of openers do you use in this setting?

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    Default Re: How to Approach 2 set in Bar

    Depends on the set. I always use Indirect Game when in a bar setting. Especially a 2-3 set. I do the opinion opener for a drink. If they smile at me with the eye contact I have had success with this:

    "It's not polite to stare." Then immediately open her friend and show her less attention.

    Generally I stay away from heavily scripted opener. It's all about your confidence and body language and showing dhv with your stories, etc.

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    Default Re: How to Approach 2 set in Bar

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    I kind of do something similar. I really like to make eye contact, smile. Then pass by, stop turn over and deliver an opener. Works well when the eye contact is strong and they smiled back. If not I just go right up confidently and start a conversation.

    And I disagree about the college setting. Essentially the same game different targets. I am at an age where I can experience both and the basics are the basics.
    I agree with Fuser here. Nothing really different about college woman at bars and women at non-college bars. Just the setting.

    A new opener I invied that works great in any bar is this:
    "I'm trying to become a regular at this bar, do you girls have any tips."

    There you can talk about how everyone likes the regular, if they themselves are regulars. If your sitting at the bar you can even bring the bartnender in, if there not busy.

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    Default Re: How to Approach 2 set in Bar

    you have to be friendly with both and later focus on one..that way the friend will not object when you Isolate your targe!


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