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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    why do you even want your ex back? making her jealous won't make her want you any more. all it will do is give you a cruel pathetic sense of satisfaction. odds are she already wants you back and you just need to talk to her.

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Na. She wants to be friends. She broke it off not me.

    She said that she "could tell it was there for me, but it wasnt for her and she didnt feel a spark" she was pretty pleased to have gotten it off her chest and was at peace with the fact that she knew that meant we wouldnt ever speak again. Im sure she thinks of me...1000s of texts and calling every night, theres that void for both of us now. But I highly doubt she does. She blocked me from seeing her status updates and now that shes on her way to being HB9 again from having been a 5-6 for a long time, well honestly, shell have plenty of guys and plenty of confidence to find that "spark".

    If I talked to her she might not even respond at this point, and if she did she would only want to be friends, if I tried to make a move she'd push me away just like she was doing the weekend of the break up.

    Oh and we never had sex, we just somehow got super attached and then she backed out cuz no spark before it could go down.

    Basically imo if there was no sex theres that much less of an attachment for the girl. Im all mental so for me its way worse, but shes your typical HB...without having had sex its really not THAT much to her. Sure I know she was attached because when I cut it off before and she wasnt sure about me yet she flipped her shit and begged me back, but now that shes come to terms that she didnt feel anything special enough, I just dont seen her being THAT attached.

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    @Sly

    don't bother with this path...

    what r u really trying to achieve.? is this the way a real Man would behave.?

    say u get ur way by creating jealousy/animosity... has it made u a better person to put the person u love in their place.? and now that she's by u, what else r u willing to do to put her in her place.?

    channel ur man... PUAs are respectful and above these petty things... u must bring ur game up above the common man.... or u stay a common man thinking that he is something better than a common man.

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Yokiiiiii

    Care to drop some ex advice seeing as you know my story a little bit?

    The ex texted me last night "i miss you :/" at midnight and i didnt respond (so proud haha)

    Then TWO hours later (she was thinking of me for that long?): "ignore that last text. Drunk thinking. Sorry to bother you. Night night Sly"

    I do want another chance at her though. How can I go about reinitiating contact sometime and just being alpha to the max like I dont care and Im in control now, enough to make her want to just hop on me and ravage me out of pure attraction. Theres something still there between us its just we rushed into it and that was a bad choice theres no good reason we shouldve stopped contact tho, but that was my stipulation if she wasnt gonna date and wanted to be friends and she knew it and called it off anyway so I stuck to my word there. Prolly the only alpha thing I did that weekend lol

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Sly,

    i dun remember much if ur story, cause i go thru tons of posts a day. i just remember a bit.

    just remember, a woman's beauty, wealth, education has no bearing on how u game her. she is just another option to u.

    just because she is getting hotter (misconception on ur part) does not mean her life is getting any better... she is still the 5/6 u have known because that is the way she has been treated a long time. and even IF she lived a 9's life, she is still just another woman.

    if u contact her, u really want to stress ur boundaries. speak with a friendly manner, but let her now that u r firm. and challenge her. i personally like challenging with reverse psychology.

    example:
    i really like our chemistry and wanna explore that (friendly),
    but i'm not going to waste my time with someone who walks out on me when i give her my full attention (boundary)
    are you that type of person (challenge/psychology).?


    i recently used this on my ex and it works wonders whenever i do...
    ME: i miss u... but do u miss us.?
    --// u can guess what she says here - it is WIN

    i ran across this similar routine reading, Kino's post on LMR.
    he goes hot n heavy and is abt to get some. to eliminate any LMR, he says:
    KINO: no no no, i shouldn't - u r trouble.
    -// he swears it makes the woman pull him in (LMR destroyed).

    GL and let me know how it goes.

    PS. i am back with my ex as of yesterday also. i practiced what i preached to u. took me 4 days of work to turn this ALPHA of ALPHA females around. lol

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Funny how shit works eh buddy?

    Anyway. So I totally dig those ideas thats exactly the stuff I was trying to conjure but couldnt get my head around it.

    One last question:

    Hows this just to open and lead into that?

    "Hey I got your text last night obviously...I was drunk too but wasnt stupid enough to reply. Drunk thinking is honest thinking tho lets be real and I DID want to talk. So can we?"

    Then when she says yes or whatever ill go into the friendly/boundary/challenge

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Maybe i can just nab your last line there instead tho haha and it would be briefer and more alpha.

    "Got your text last nite...wasnt about to go thru my emotions drunkenly tho. Cant lie tho, I miss you too...but do you miss us?"

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    ok - for me - that's too long.

    taking a page from PUA Cody, i like to keep things short and done in statement form. also, she's trying to act tough, but she ended it in a negative note. so, ideally, u wanna ignore the negative and say what u gotta say.

    example:
    -// saw an old nekked woman running after her toy poodle. n ur night was.?
    -// Stacy, u - me, sexting in 32minutes... winning

    this is a high leading into normal convo. and then set ur boundary

    cheers

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    i would use my line - when u r abt to set boundary.

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Interestinggg. Anyway as you can see I myself felt the lengthyness was bad too.

    So what would you maybe suggest for this particular situation. I didnt get your examples totally.

    Were you suggesting I just overlook the "ignore tht text" text and just pretend were friends and say something crazy about my night and ask her how hers was?

    (I did meet 3 olympic swimmers and we chain smoked cigarettes together even tho none of us smoke so were all laughing and coughing like amateurs).


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