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Thread: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    i would ignore her negative comment

    address what u want from her.^^

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    I've had conversations with girls for 1-2 hours and they told me they felt that they had known me for what seemed like years. When in any conversation with a girl I think of the big 3, (character, motivation, emotion) If you do this, you will never run out of conversation topics or things to say, you can count on that!

    Let's say she tells me that she's taking dancing classes.

    Motivation: Why does she do this? What sparked her interest in it?
    Character: What kind of person does this make her? Does she go at the same time every single week making her a scheduled sort of person, or does she do different kinds of dance and is more of an adventurous type, you get the idea.
    Emotion: How does she feel when doing it? It must feel good because she keeps going to the classes, but I love having a girl "rich describe" to me what she feels when she's doing something she loves. Having her describe a great feeling will actually put her into that state while she's describing it. I'll then say something along the lines of "Interesting... it must feel amazing when you're there on the stage.... the nervous tingle going up your spine from the excitement..." etc. I'll describe it back to her in even stronger terms.

    Went a bit off topic there, but I like this idea, I personally wouldn't tell a girl that I was testing her, just from my experience girls hate it when you tell them that you were testing them and that they passed or failed.

    Respect for ourselves and our peers though, now THAT is an invaluable trait.
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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    not to shoot u down, stealth.

    every girl i talk to... u just have to act interested and press for their thoughts.

    then they drone on and on...

    lol

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Yoki not tryna hound you just didnt get a straight answer yet haha. Youre examples of how cody would open didnt make sense to me. I WILL overlook the negative and talk about what I want to talk about but I need to initiate in a non awkward way and my other way you said was too long and looked at the negative so...yah.

    I mean im no good at this and ive got all my eggs in a row except the opening...

    Im just confused mainly because
    A) i said no contact
    B) im contacting her the day after she contacted
    C) isnt it awkward to just ask about her night or something out of no where given a&b, youre saying not to even mention the drunk stuff or say i want to talk more and just flat out talk like we already have been

    Wht do you think of this then just to open and then ill get into the rest:

    "Smoked cigs with olympic swimmers and found out my friend has 3 nipples...and your night was...?"

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    @ Yoki, it's what I do with girls that I'm not just interested in fucking, if they are the girlfriend type and you really want to connect with her on a deeper level, it's the template I use, be warned, it's powerful stuff and I repeat, don't use it on girls you just want to sleep with. And you must live somewhere where the girls are really social because in my neck of the woods, a lot of girls are very shy unless drunk, meh.
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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    if u wanna stick to NC, then u answered

    A) NC
    B) NC
    C) if i want to break NC, lead in with NIPPLEs... talk abt swimmers if u got nothing else to fall on.

    it's not awkward if u don't make it awkward... if u fart and laugh, it's not awkward.

    u r simple controlling the convo the way u want - and u need to lead in with something NOT of a normal convo... if we did things using the norm - we wouldn't be PUAs now, would we.?

    GL

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    So you approve then? Should I cut the swimmers and lead with nipples and then add the swimmers after?

    And you have a unique way of speaking/typing, curious as to your origin. Thats the only reason I ask so many questions btw, is cuz sometimes I think I know what you mean but its not like perfect english (wish i was like that honestly, such a bonus to have an accent or different way of talking) so at the same time I have to double check in case ive misinterpreted you.

    Thanks again yok, and youre right about the being pua thing, if we werent it would be norm, but since thats what we want to be, we have to be memorable and different.

    Also youre bruce lee quote comes to mind as im preparing to do this. Love it. Puts me at ease. Just gotta flow like water (:

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    i use my cell for forums - no reason y.... so sometimes i misspell or grammar

    u'll be fine... lead in with nipples.

    ur buddy blah blah... n ur night was...

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Also @stealth

    Wasnt trying to ignore you just tryna clear things up with Yok about this issue irrelevant to my OP.

    Anyway, i think you got a good thing going there with having them describe the joy they get from doing what they love. And then describing it back to them should definitely put them in that state and she prolly feels that tingle a little right then and it gets associated with you+something she loves = she love the feeling of talking with you now (in a round about way)

    I hadnt thought of that but from what I know about psychology and i do know alot that would surely pluck a heartstring and get her attached on a deeper level. Nice tactic.

    And im glad you agree that respect is something to test for. After reading some responses and yours ive come to terms that i should remove the ttelling them its a test part. But the rest Im still diggin, glad other people are too, feel like its an easy way to show you have values you hold true to (alpha) and to just chat in general (smooth convo is always preferably over bumpy)

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Yokiii, something makes me love saying that aloud...

    Thought youd be interested to see how this is playing out

    Me: Ya ya, anyway, I miss you too N...but do you miss us??

    Her: Yeah I do.

    Her: I can never get you outta my head either really starting to piss me off lol always wondering what slys doing.

    Me: Go on...

    Her: I dunno I wish I could have you in my life.

    Me: friendly/boundary/challenge

    Her: See what else is there how?

    Her: Really you think I would be that kinda person? I feel like you know me well enough to know I'm not..

    Me: By dating more. Just slower..and I dont, but you kind of did in a round about way.

    Me: Explaining how I caused the pressure but wasnt even sure of it myself and still think theres something there.

    Her: Yeah true... I'm sure something could develop.

    Her: But ya you were the one that was so gun ho about being exclusive official w/e and then you gave me the ultimatum a while ago.. so I figured you were serious. I never got a confused vibe from you.

    Her: And I didn't walk out on you.. you gave me no choice. You didn't want me in ur life unless we were together.

    Not sure what to say to that last one I already voiced my opinions about just being friends before and I made strong points (causes jealousy, pain and eventually shed get sick of me constantly trying to somehow win her back still) so im just gonna assume she listened and not reiterate all that to her


    Got a bit to respond. Shes semi busy and took a good while to formulate that so Im gonna let her sit on it for a bit too and respond in like 15 mins


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