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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    all u can do is give then ur pc.... either they come around or not.

    it's part of being on ur game... easy to say, hard to practice.

    gl

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    So...this went on a lil longer and eventually it came to this:

    Me: So if you agree theres still something special between us Im okay with talking again and letting it develop naturally..

    (Yah pretty beta thing to say but I didnt kno how else to put it.

    Her: I feel like I should call you later and we can talk

    (That kind of made me worry tbh...I feel like she only wants to be friends and shes gonna try and talk me into it. This is the only thing she said that threw me off and confused me...Any thoughts on what it means?)

    Me: Call me tomorrow afternoon. I have to finish up some work and Ill be busy bouncing between friends tonight, lots of plans. Catch you later.

    (Kept it alpha despite being worried. Tried to control the frame a bit.)

    Her: K

    Me: PS. I think you couldve smiled bigger in that pic, you didnt try hard enough

    (Figured Id keep it friendly and make her miss the way I bash on her before I dropped the convo)

    Her: Lol huge smile

    (She prolly smiled a lil when she wrote that so thats good)



    Any thoughts? Mostly curious about her avoiding a definite yes to continuing things from where we left off. I feel like shes gonna call tomorrow and Im gonna get "yah i fucked some guy and im not just gonna walk away from him so youll have to wait on me again but lets be friends still please" or "yah I want to be just friends please I really dont think anythinf is there or will be there ever but I do miss us hanging out"

    Or it could just be all good. Who knows. In any event ill find out tomorrow. Any thoughts on ways to come off alpha when she does call and we talk a lil more about us?

    I do plan on mentioning something like this "so I should let you know,i am seeing other people now. Itll be good though, you wont have to worry about me trying to rush into being exclusive any time soon."

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    don't give her th ball... u want to call the shot

    it's great u said i'm busy - ttyl..

    i think better is:
    i'll give u a call early tomorrow (u hold ball)

    ... so what u did - has u waiting on her.

    only time i give her the ball after u given ur pc and need her to reflect on her actions.

    example:
    i dislike that u hang out with ur ex and this is a deal breaker. so if u want this to work, u let me know what's more important to u.

    good work so far

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Ahhh gotcha. Yah when she said something about call n talk I knew i needed to take the opp to do something alpha. And i did just wasnt full on alpha. Im getting this mentality better tho. Thanks for the help dude Ill keep you updated. Wont hear from me til tomorrow. If she texts me or some shit while out tonight i will NOT respond. Thats how I know I wont be asking shit til tomorrow after that call

    Any lil pointers for things to say on the phone thats outside of personal convo that I should fit in no matter what girl any time I have such a situation?


    PS. Just remembered The greatest wingman picked me up last night (we even joked about it cuz everything he did was as if I was his target girl and then he number xclosed me like a boss hahah)

    Hes got a gf too so hes only there to help me no interest for himself. Should be a good new year

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Yokiii!

    So the ex texted this morning. Said shes baking with the gma all day so she wont be able to call prolly. Legit excuse, shes super family oriented and bakes all day for holidays.

    Anyway I see 2 options (if theres better please do tell me lol):

    1) dont respond at all. Let her contact me again about it.
    2) respond and say im busy all day too (i am, shopping and such) and that ill call her tomorrow evening? (Takes ball back from her so im in full control)

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    i dunno... the AFC in me wants to chat her up abt baking and act interested.

    if ur bond is good and ur text game is good (u r witty/imaginative) then i would text and chat her up.

    suggest:
    U: omg, gf - i gotta call OPRAH n tell her
    HB: lol... what.?
    U: OPRAH needs to kno, Stacy makes a mean W/E
    U: uh huh... i got the jones for Misses, Misses Staaacy...
    U: she got it gooooo-in on. *emote singing icons*

    exit this if u don't feel snappy/witty...

    lemmie me kno what u do.^^*

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    My text game is phenomenal. How you think I hooked a girl long distance for 4 years?

    Seriously, I may be AFC and beta in person occasionally, but thru text...whew. I could school anybody in this place, bar none. I got a way with words its my main trait, and i use it to my advantage.

    Sad thing is Until just recently I never went out pulling numbers. Basically heres how it goes: if I get a number, its over, I win, they love me, they want to text me all day, alll day. I make a new friend N we text 24hrs str8. You see those girls who wont get the F off their phone? Theyre too wrapped up in a convo with ME.



    Anyway, I like your idea. BUT, she wouldnt be able to respond much, shed play along for a little but give me a "i really do gotta help out with the gma tho, ill text you later" so to me thats not the best option.

    But ima give it shot anyway. Do a little playful banter and them BEFoRE she can cop out like that, ill make the move first and be like "anyway, i got gifts to buy since I cant just cook something dank like you and have it be the best present ever. Well have our talk tomorrow night, ill give you a call."

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Done. Killed it. Thx for the singing idea. Was so happy I sang it aloud while shopping. And mentioned that i did. She laughed hard. I left it at that and didnt respond.

    I said I was busy tho and would call her tomorrow night. She like laughed and was like oMG you are singing that aloud?!?! Youre so funnyyy! Bahah.

    But she didnt answer the "so ill call you tmrw nite and well talk?" Part.

    But im not gonna text back and be like YAH I WaS!! Cuz then shell think I wanna keep talking. And I already did well and pulled the ball back so she knows ill call, even if she didnt acknowledge. No need to keep talking and answer her rhetorical question, na mean?

    Alpha! If I say i gotta focus on shopping im focusing on shopping no time to respond again!

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    Default Re: Openers: Respect Tests. What Do You Think of This PUAs?

    Yokiiii!

    So we JUST got around to talking about "us" finally.

    I was right, she just wanted to be friends still and was sure it wasn't there for her.

    But I kept in good spirit and honestly the convo went from okay to really good by the very end where
    I serenaded her with that song I texted her the other day and she laughed her tits off she loved it so much.


    Anyway down to the nitty gritty:

    1) she was SUPER iffy.
    2) I made her admit she was already decided before she came that she didnt wanna be more than friends
    3) I told her I was confused and blah blah and that I still thought there was something there
    4) she gave me the ol "if it was there it wouldve happened already"
    5) i told her I completely agree cuz I play that same song, BUT that she was different and this was different cuz I wasnt MYSELF that weekend.
    6) we both admitted to some mistakes mainly me saying I shouldve been more open and me and its my fault it got killed but I still think we could be the best gf/bf ever
    7) she questioned me saying if I really thought that then why am I saying im confused and dunno what I want
    8) THIS WAS THE BREAKTHRU! I went full on alpha and realized that that was the one beta thing holding me back was not showing her I know what I want.
    9) told her "fine, lemme rephrase: I WANT YOU."
    10) she had mentioned tht she noticed I was being a "social butterfly" lately so I went back to that and told her that Id been dating around and everything and Im the happiest ive ever been atm
    11) she tried to test me saying "ya youre happy cuz im not in your life" so i told her "nope, im so happy its ridiculous and only 1 thing could make my life 100% perfect right now: for her to be my girl."
    12) I got her to say she wanted to see me again then to make up her mind cuz she went from no no no no to - fine well try but im not promising anything
    13) i told her yes you are, you will promise me one thing: youre not gonna jerk me around. I dont wanna come see her a few times and stay in touch and then hear how she was just being nice and its not there and shes sorry for using me but I convinced her to try so she just did it because and not because SHE wanted to. Basically, I told her be real: either she wants to try or she doesnt and if shes not actually gonna go into it with an open mind then I dont want her to think she has to give it a shot and well just end it there
    14) she actually wants to maybe try, but shes still super skeptical I can tell. Shes got a huge guard up against the idea of something not working and then suddenly working when it never did before.

    In lieu of #14...what do I do? I know the easy answer: stay alpha and show her youre the man she wanted all along you just werent yourself before.

    Note to self: if she mentions the new me ever I say "so what you dont like me now? Cuz if not we dont have to be friends Ill just go back to not talking to you and being a little emo boy who didnt know what he wanted. Would you prefer that? (Her: noo) Thats what I thought!."

    Anyway where was I...oh yes, so how do I make this happen? I mighttt see her on new years and she'd be the girl I kissed. But im thinking i show her the alpha me and go in for a midnight kiss and then pull off (even though that ruins the whole kiss at the exact second thing, ill get to wht ima do about that) and ill say something like "wait, i dunnooo youre trouble, why should I let you have a guy like me?"

    Then regardless of her response I can be like "well I farked up the kiss at midnight thing but you know what, the new year is when I decide i want it to be...so fark it *mind blowing kiss*"

    Also when I first see her again would this be good to say "so I know you want me to be your man again and thats why youre here today, but I should warn you...im up to no good, and you cant just have me back, im classier than that. So dont get your hopes up, im not making any promises."

    I need a way to flip this around on her and make it seem like shes trying to get ME back and its not me whos trying to get HER back. She said she wouldnt make promises as to it being a thing between us again, so I want to flip that on her too, as if im the one not making promises.

    Is this a good plan? I just feel like no matter what I tell her and even tho I made her promise to be real and say its a no go completely if she wasnt willing to try that despite all that shes still gonna show up thinking NO. Shes crafty and a bitch like that and honestly i love it, it makes me wanna strip her down on the spot an f the sh1t out of her.

    So what im thinking is if I dont put it in her head right away that she actually does want me that her guard will be up so high ill never hurdle it.



    Whew. Seriously if this doesnt work out im over life. I want her to want me so badly its ridiculous.

    Im just faking it til I make it. Sometimes you gotta. Im not that new alpha guy she wants but if she takes me and we get it on, I will forever be. Until then Im only faking it honestly, im just a newbie trying to come off as a true PUA.

    Pray for me dude. Pray. I seriously dont feel like balling my eyes out for months on end contemplating suicide and whatever else comes with mega depression. Im happy im getting another chance and Im also insanely scared ill fark it up again and turn her off. Im so scared and nervous its outrageous...what can I do to get over that so when I see her Im not so much faking being alpha as just straight being alpha and showing no fear whatsoever?


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