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    Default Tap her shoulder with the back of your hand?

    I've been reading the book "the new and improved art of seduction". One sentence from the book is "As you are saying something to her, tap her shoulder with the back of your hand." With the back of your hand? Is it a mistake?

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    Default Re: Tap her shoulder with the back of your hand?

    That is interesting, I am not sure of all of the uses and benefits of tapping with the back of the hand but it has given me some ideas, so while I am not sure about what the book meant, thanks for mentioning it.

    Maybe if I ever want to tap someone I should do it like this, it seems like it is less personal and may even cause her to wonder if I don't want to touch her or something.

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    Default Re: Tap her shoulder with the back of your hand?

    the back of the hand doesn't give that softness as it normally would if you used your palm side because there's no chance that your fingers will go soft and feel like your grabbing her in a sense, it's just to establish light Kino, nothing substantial , and you can do it with body language that's about to walk away so she doesn't get startled if she'd be seeing you standing there full open to her

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    Default Re: Tap her shoulder with the back of your hand?

    Quote Originally Posted by hyp View Post
    the back of the hand doesn't give that softness as it normally would if you used your palm side because there's no chance that your fingers will go soft and feel like your grabbing her in a sense, it's just to establish light Kino, nothing substantial , and you can do it with body language that's about to walk away so she doesn't get startled if she'd be seeing you standing there full open to her
    In addition to this, it's a much less threatening gesture. First, as hyp said, you can't grab her, so there's less of a threat. Second, when you tap her with the back of your hand, you are naturally using a palm open expression which is a none-aggressive gesture.

    The way I see it, this would be a beginning step in escalating kino.

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    Default Re: Tap her shoulder with the back of your hand?

    The way I see it, this would be a beginning step in Escalating Kino.
    it is, check out vidicarlos escalation ladder or the search button, either one will give you clear pictures of what's light and what's heavy and how to go about doing it


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