i often get asked this from my last 2 GFs.
sometimes i feel like i give them each the world and they go and tell this... and it doesn't matter ur explanation of the difference.
i like that Cody advises to be honest and let her kno she can take it or go.
i'd like to hear other ways of dealing with this question. (sh*t test.?)
i am funny and caring to all girl buddies... but i reserve poems/acts of love for her only.