Re: New to here and need some help with openers
Body language is a great thing and it is very important, but in the greater scope of things, it's not the be all and end all. Of course you're gonna get that type of body language at first - it would be odd if you didn't. She's puzzled - "Why is this guy approaching me?"
This is where the fun comes in - have a reason to approach her. You're shopping for clothes - ask for an opinion. Opinion openers tend to get replies, so go with those. This is where your knowledge of body language comes in - project your voice, position yourself properly, etc. Also, since this is the first interaction, try not to focus too much on her body language. Again, it's important, but everything comes together without one being all that more important than the other.
This might help with your texting and whatnot - http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...criticize.html
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