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Thread: I has question about basic "Hey how are you?"

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    Default I has question about basic "Hey how are you?"

    Usually when I say "How are you?" A woman gives a lengthy response that allows me to have conversation with her.

    If I say "How are you?" and a woman says "Fine, How are you?"

    should I actually try to converse back, or just take the one word response as a mini rejection?

    I don't know how to respond usually they do all the talking

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    Default Re: I has question about basic "Hey how are you?"

    How are you? is boring. It's what you say to the guy at the cash register, not some girl you wanna fark. Avoid it when possible but if you must you must. It's really unavoidable and expected in conversation, and it can easily segway to something else, but if you're talking about texts or online then "Hey how are you?" is basically AFC exhibit A.

    The reason they always do all the talking is cus "how are you?" puts you in the position of emotional tampon. It's boring - your frame becomes "friend who is a great listener but not very exciting". Aka, friend who is never going to fark her! Girls absolutely LOVE to talk about their day and all the random drama bullsh1t that went on. I mean, I can enjoy a funny story from work too, but let's be honest the ladies really thrive on it. Cus they're emotional creatures. So don't just be the good listener. Be the guy that excites her.

    Response #2 could mean a couple of things. If this is IRL and she's short with you then she probably isn't interested in talking. If this is online, ANY response is good. I would take a short response to mean "I'm fine, now do something cool to make my pussy wet instead of asking me how I am". Honestly it could mean that in real life too, just gotta know how to read her tone/body language.

    Read this for a goldmine of advice:

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html

    Read the other texting guides too, might as well.

    If this is more real-life oriented... Then just think of a better transition after how are you. Say something funny. Say something stupid. Say anything. Just make sure you say it with a smile and some eye contact. It's not what you say it's how you say it. Positive energy - girls love it. Be positive and exciting, she'll wanna hop on that positive excitement train with you. Make sure she knows you're not there to listen to her bitch - you're there to excite and pleasure her. Best wishes bro.

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    Default Re: I has question about basic "Hey how are you?"

    Nah, a girl being passive in a convo is not an IOD/rejection. In my experience you need to lead the conversation in order to get consistent results with women.

    PUA: Hey how are you
    HB: Fine how are you
    PUA: Not so great, I just found out my cousin is coming to town for Christmas and he's an @$$hole *cheeky smile*
    HB: Lol what xD
    PUA: You see we all have our own wake-up-at-home Christmases in my family, then the cousins and aunts and uncles all meet at my grandmothers' house... (go into a story about the holidays, or about your family, or about what-the-fark ever you set up for when she asked "how are you")

    Cheers
    DTF HB's omw 2 LTR

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    Default Re: I has question about basic "Hey how are you?"

    Glad it's not IOD because I have a mini-crush on this HB8... But fark I was being tampon Xo
    Fast helpful responses!...Will read link Curtis thanks..!

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    Default Re: I has question about basic "Hey how are you?"

    While a simple how are you is boring as anything, i admit that i use it probably more than i like lol.

    But its kinda funny, because like Autismus, i just roll with their answers and make it fun. Its so nonchalant that attimes it can be taken as a sign that you arent interested in her. Again, depends on your response. Oh and i think it only
    works best in daygame
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