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    Cool I approached 20+ hot chicks today (day game)!

    Hey guys,

    As the title says, I approached 20+ chicks ranging from HB7-10 today, with a sarging buddy. Most of the sets were solo, although we did a couple of sets together ("Hey man! Long time no see! Who's this?).

    The funniest thing was when I challenged my buddy to ask this HB7 "Do you spit or swallow?" which he did.... and she spat in his face, and then said "I spit." hahahahahahaha We actually managed to smooth that one over and she wiped the spit off his face and gave him a hug after I persuaded her to do it.

    Anyways, I tried indirect (the cologne opener), asking whether the HB liked my beanie, and direct. None worked, in that when I was direct, they left pretty quick, and when I was indirect, I found it awkward to switch the subject seeing as my question had been answered.

    So there's my sticking point: getting a number.

    Also, I'm only 18. Is it feasible to hit on 25+ women?

    -Totallydude

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    Default Re: I approached 20+ hot chicks today (day game)!

    Indirect is pretty awkward when people are on the move. I mean really, are you stopping a pretty girl in the street to ask her about whether she thinks kissing is cheating? No one buys that, you don't buy that, she doesn't either, but people like being polite(I wonder why) so they'll answer you. Then it gets awkward once your question has been answered because it's a weird transition in that scenario.

    If a girl is at the bus stop, on the bus, in the metro and in any situation where she's obviously not in a rush, then indirect works a bit better. Transitioning really isn't a big deal. It only feels awkward cause you make it awkward. Let's say you use the kissing is cheating opener. You wanna transition. You can do something like

    HB: Blablablablabla, yes/no because blablabla
    PUA: So would you ever do that(said with a playfully suspicious look)
    HB: I dunno/Of course nooo
    PUA: Haha I see right through you, you totally would. You're a wild one, I'm gonna have to watch myself around you(smiling). What's your name?
    HB: Laughing, blabla I'm X
    PUA: See, you're already trying to seduce me(again, said playfully). Proceed with rapport and building an emotional connection, snag her number or go on an insta date if logistics work out

    Direct is not easy when you start off. It's really all about your frame and how congruent you are. You probably had the wrong frames or could not follow up strongly after the opener.
    Opening direct in day game comes across very powerfully. The girl has to make a decision on the spot. Don't be afraid of rejection. It's a numbers game. Your follow up game after opening direct also has to be very on point. You came across as very alpha by opening direct, so if the rest of your actions and conversation don't demonstrate that, you come across as a poser, a fake, and girls are very attuned to that.

    I personally like direct more, it's pretty cut and dry and I don't like beating around the bush.

    Anyways, good farking job on approaching 20+ women.

    Sarge on brother

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    Cool Re: I approached 20+ hot chicks today (day game)!

    Thanks for taking the time to write this man, I appreciate it

    Quote Originally Posted by Kaybee View Post
    Indirect is pretty awkward when people are on the move. I mean really, are you stopping a pretty girl in the street to ask her about whether she thinks kissing is cheating? No one buys that, you don't buy that, she doesn't either, but people like being polite(I wonder why) so they'll answer you. Then it gets awkward once your question has been answered because it's a weird transition in that scenario.

    If a girl is at the bus stop, on the bus, in the metro and in any situation where she's obviously not in a rush, then indirect works a bit better. Transitioning really isn't a big deal. It only feels awkward cause you make it awkward. Let's say you use the kissing is cheating opener. You wanna transition. You can do something like

    HB: Blablablablabla, yes/no because blablabla
    PUA: So would you ever do that(said with a playfully suspicious look)
    HB: I dunno/Of course nooo
    PUA: Haha I see right through you, you totally would. You're a wild one, I'm gonna have to watch myself around you(smiling). What's your name?
    HB: Laughing, blabla I'm X
    PUA: See, you're already trying to seduce me(again, said playfully).

    Proceed with rapport and building an emotional connection, snag her number or go on an insta date if logistics work out.
    Right. I see.. So indirect is more useful in bars, public transport, when people are standing still etc. Haha, I like the example, pretty ballsy though

    Direct is not easy when you start off. It's really all about your frame and how congruent you are. You probably had the wrong frames or could not follow up strongly after the opener.
    Opening direct in day game comes across very powerfully. The girl has to make a decision on the spot. Don't be afraid of rejection. It's a numbers game. Your follow up game after opening direct also has to be very on point. You came across as very alpha by opening direct, so if the rest of your actions and conversation don't demonstrate that, you come across as a poser, a fake, and girls are very attuned to that.

    I personally like direct more, it's pretty cut and dry and I don't like beating around the bush.

    Anyways, good farking job on approaching 20+ women.

    Sarge on brother
    Having based all my pua knowledge on indirect material like mystery method/ annihilation method/ the game etc., direct approach is very alien to me. It goes against everything that the indirect gurus preach- mainly that you should make HER work to get YOU. When you tell her you like her, the challenge is gone.

    The funniest direct approach I had went something like this:

    ME: Hey, I think you're pretty cute, and wanted to see whether you're more than just a pretty face before you walked out of my life forever.
    HB8: Uh huh.. Thanks...
    ME: What are you doing here?
    HB8: I just got back from my job at Mercedes Benz
    ME: Wow, you must be pretty rich. Here's my plan: I come live at yours and stay home watching TV whilst you go out and work to provide for me and the house. Sound like a Plan?
    HB8: Yeah.. (Starts walking away)
    ME: It's a plan right?
    HB8: No.

    Well, better luck next time I guess Thanks man, I will keep sarging on!!

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    Default Re: I approached 20+ hot chicks today (day game)!

    Oh, I thought it might be good to explain more clearly what I meant by the + symbols. I approached "more than" twenty women, and I would like to know whether it's feasible to hit on women who are "over twenty five years old" when I'm 18. Sorry if I didn't make that clear :P

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    Default Re: I approached 20+ hot chicks today (day game)!

    Quote Originally Posted by Totallydude View Post
    Having based all my pua knowledge on indirect material like mystery method/ annihilation method/ the game etc., direct approach is very alien to me. It goes against everything that the indirect gurus preach- mainly that you should make HER work to get YOU. When you tell her you like her, the challenge is gone.

    The funniest direct approach I had went something like this:

    ME: Hey, I think you're pretty cute, and wanted to see whether you're more than just a pretty face before you walked out of my life forever.
    HB8: Uh huh.. Thanks...
    ME: What are you doing here?
    HB8: I just got back from my job at Mercedes Benz
    ME: Wow, you must be pretty rich. Here's my plan: I come live at yours and stay home watching TV whilst you go out and work to provide for me and the house. Sound like a Plan?
    HB8: Yeah.. (Starts walking away)
    ME: It's a plan right?
    HB8: No.

    Well, better luck next time I guess Thanks man, I will keep sarging on!!
    Bzzzzzt. Not trying to be mean but you have your work cut out for you. You are not supposed to be a comedian bro.

    There's a difference between telling her you're interested, and telling her you like her. Even if you're interested, you still show you have standards by screening, so the challenge is still there.

    You say you're the follower of the mystery method. That is not the MM. The MM has some good stuff but there's also bunch of things that are incongruent in it.

    Anyways, even if you were using the MM, you totally failed at DHVing. Right from the get go, you implied that she was too good for you by saying "before you walk out of my life forever". Why the fark would you say something like that?

    Your other comment also reeks of dlv. Her telling you she works for Mercedes was a hook. She was interested. She could have just said I got off work now, I gotta go if she was just being polite, but the fact she mentioned that in detail means she wanted you to ask more questions. From there you could have actually gotten to know her and built some rapport.

    Many ways you could handle this depending on the type of girl

    A more low key approach

    Her: I work for Mercedes
    PUA: Oh. What type of work are we talking here(semi curious expression)?
    Her: Blablabla, more hooks

    A more excited approach

    Her: I work for Mercedes
    PUA: Haha, I bet you're one of the pretty girls parading around whenever they unveil a new model(sexy or funny smile depending on the vibe you want things to take)
    Her: Haha no. I actually blablabla

    Something a bit more challenging if you think she's a girl who can handle it

    Her: I work for Mercedes
    PUA: Really? I would have never pictured you as a sales person. You don't look particularly persuasive(half smiling)
    Her: Blabla trying to qualify herself,
    PUA: Haha, you'd never manage to sell me anything(smiling)

    or

    Her: Maybe cause I'm not a sales person
    PUA: Heh, I guess my first impression was right(while smirking). What do you do?
    Her: I'm actually blablabla

    Anyways, keep working on it man. IMO direct is the far superior approach in most situations so it's good you're at least dabbling in it.

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    Thumbs up Re: I approached 20+ hot chicks today (day game)!

    Quote Originally Posted by Kaybee View Post
    Bzzzzzt. Not trying to be mean but you have your work cut out for you. You are not supposed to be a comedian bro.
    Haha, yeah... I was just having a little bit of fun but I guess it didn't really work.

    There's a difference between telling her you're interested, and telling her you like her. Even if you're interested, you still show you have standards by screening, so the challenge is still there.
    Okay. Got it.

    You say you're the follower of the mystery method. That is not the MM. The MM has some good stuff but there's also bunch of things that are incongruent in it.

    Anyways, even if you were using the MM, you totally failed at DHVing. Right from the get go, you implied that she was too good for you by saying "before you walk out of my life forever". Why the fark would you say something like that?
    No, I wasn't trying the mystery method here, I was just improvising using a direct opener I think I heard from Sasha on one of his infield videos. But yes, the mystery method does seem to have some incongruence, partly in that Mystery says you should tell her she's "hijacked your mind" but also retain the "I don't care" attitude

    Your other comment also reeks of dlv. Her telling you she works for Mercedes was a hook. She was interested. She could have just said I got off work now, I gotta go if she was just being polite, but the fact she mentioned that in detail means she wanted you to ask more questions. From there you could have actually gotten to know her and built some rapport.
    I thought my comment was pretty funny, it was a line I adapted from David D where he asks the girl to support him whilst he lazes around at her house.

    Liking the examples, although saying "you don't seem particularly persuasive" to me would seem a little too much of a neg.. I can imagine her thinking "who is this jerk, I don't need this BS" and then just leaving. But yeah I guess if she looked like she could handle it

    Awesome, I see where you're coming from, and yes.. I do need some work Thanks man!

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    Default Re: I approached 20+ hot chicks today (day game)!

    How about a little bit of indirect! Mixed with a little bit of direct!! I agree indirect is awkward but it definitely puts the ladies more at ease. I recommend trying to be a little bit more direct but not on the subject of things that can get you slapped or worse (for instance the spit/swallow lol). Me and my roommate went sarging at the daytime and approached some ladies. Two we approached we cool, had good conversation and midway we started amping it up in the Kino and etc. We were so direct that they got nervous but a bit touchy feely also. Ended up getting their numbers and such. But man, glad to see you're doing daytime approaching and just having fun!! I admit...I'm still uneasy approaching during the day, night time is no problem. But I'm working on it! And yeah man, definitely go for the 25 year olds. My friend is recently turned 19 dating a 25 year old. Go for it.

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    Default Re: I approached 20+ hot chicks today (day game)!

    Great stuff fellas... I have the most issue with the transition/ meet up after getting the number. Do you recommend setting something up later that night or just telling her something like "hey, there's a salsa dancing (or whatever) at (insert spot here) during the week. You should join if you're not going to embarrass me."

    I figure it plants a seed to do something fun later and allows perfect opportunity for Kino, etc...

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    Default Re: I approached 20+ hot chicks today (day game)!

    Yes it is.
    I started picking up when I was younger (am 38)..(am not goodlooking,yet...).
    At that age, you have to really look quick intimate eye contact.
    DO NOT: give her a eye, or eye contact that smells there's
    She has to feel your body, and almost wanting to, BUT not your head.
    That my friend is a nugget I'm giving you, and that hat I think you're doing wrong.
    One, you're jsut fooling around and two..she senses you
    Secondly.
    Your, wing, seems to much as a buddy-buddy.
    That's bad. You should use each other in other ways to pickup.

    See, you could approach any woman, BUT without the eye(I learned this from a 25 yr..when younger..seems odd buy she had the same age).
    She'll feel your body vibes..and if they are sexual, and you're mind is cool..you could talk about the weather, and she'll then she'll almost automatically ask you to come to her house..

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    Default Re: I approached 20+ hot chicks today (day game)!

    Kaybee couldn't have put it any better, that's sound and solid advice right there, i prefer direct daygame over indirect night mainly cause u have a chance to see who the chick ur talking to actually is, not some dolled up drunk (not always), guarded / defensive chick that knows guys are gonna hit on her in the day she doesn't expect it that's why direct is awesome ily kb


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