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Thread: Kinda new to this! Looking for beginner tips!

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    Default Kinda new to this! Looking for beginner tips!

    Haha, the title kind of explains it all.

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    Default Re: Kinda new to this! Looking for beginner tips!

    Same here. I'm having some trouble finding some comprehensive, step-by-step sort of stuff. I'll let you know if I find anything.

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    Default Re: Kinda new to this! Looking for beginner tips!

    As i start teaching some of my friends in this "game" so you call it.... i do baby steps.. my one week formula is as follows...

    1st day: walk around a mall, and simply say hello to 30+ girls you see (age appropriate and elderly)
    2nd day: walk around a different mall and try to say hello and stop them to ask where a certain store is.
    3rd day: walk around a different mall and ask a girl which coffee place are located in that mall, and ask her which one she prefers... if you feel comfortable enough... ask her to walk you to it, then ask her if she wants to join you for 5-10 minutes (usually will last longer)
    4th day: grocery store or take a break depending on your success so far
    5th day: go outside, park whatever.. and approach girls coming your way.
    6th day: go into a bar, and try to say hello to a few girls and see where the conversations go, if well.. apply some Kino and try to move on with a Number Close.
    7th day: using the numbers you got.. text some of those girls to see you for dinner ...

    text openers are simple.. here's a sample: "hey Danielle, Thomas here, was walking by starbucks and thought about how you spilled coffee on your shirt. Anyways this is my number, call me if you want desserts!"

    they'll probably respond with "hahaha, im busy today" whatever.. but u started rapport, and the practise continues in various locations and you really make note of what works and doesn't? if you epic fail, don't try the same openers again....

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    Default Re: Kinda new to this! Looking for beginner tips!

    Love the process, trust in the processes, and always strive to evolve. That's my advice to you! Now go read some articles!
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Kinda new to this! Looking for beginner tips!

    Quote Originally Posted by Vexing Haze View Post
    Same here. I'm having some trouble finding some comprehensive, step-by-step sort of stuff. I'll let you know if I find anything.
    Indirect:
    Canned Opener - time constraint and disqualify
    Find relationships
    dhv Storytelling
    Isolate
    Dhv/elicit value
    Close

    Direct:
    Open with, "Don't take this the wrong way, but you look gorgeous." !shout out to Closer.
    Then either wooo her with charming humor or be cocky funny.

    There are guides on here for all that stuff. Don't think you're being rejected, keep hammering it out till you know you are rejected! GLHF!
    Caveat: Just because I feel a certain way about my journey doesn't mean you should feel the same about yours.

    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Kinda new to this! Looking for beginner tips!

    I'm new here too, but I would suggest you to read some guides also..At first you should choose what style you like, direct or indirect.
    And then you should learn about openers, body language and Kino.

    I'm learning also, but that's my suggestions for you.

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    Default Re: Kinda new to this! Looking for beginner tips!

    So, over the past few days I have been reading plenty of articles and such, and I decided to try to Number Close a new girl while I was at work. I caught my target staring at me (HB8) and since I've always been cocky/funny with my friends, I decided to try it here too. I opened with "Stop undressing me with your eyes, creep!" With a big smile of course. She laughed and we began talking until we had more work to do. Throughout the conversation I made sure to build Kino, a few pats on the arm and such. and keep everything flowing. Midway through the conversation she went to the bathroom, and when she came back, I had my phone opened up to a new contact page and said "This is for you." Almost instantly she grabbed it and put her info in. Then I said "I'll text you later". I never texted her though. Anyway, was this just dumd luck, or am I actually semi doing this right?

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    Default Re: Kinda new to this! Looking for beginner tips!

    Nah man. That's about right. Good job on the Number Close but why not text her and continue?
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    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Kinda new to this! Looking for beginner tips!

    Haha, thanks! I totally am going to text her. Maybe try and set up a date or something. Once I read more about text game, of course!

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    Exclamation Re: Kinda new to this! Looking for beginner tips!

    Quote Originally Posted by Grymthoughts666 View Post
    Haha, thanks! I totally am going to text her. Maybe try and set up a date or something. Once I read more about text game, of course!
    i would suggest doing a few hours of sagging and just calling her man! text game when your newer usually results in flaking. thats what i have found anyway.. if your interaction went well you should feel good about calling her and if you don't, just use it as refrence experience!

    hope all goes well my man!


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