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    Default Was this a shit-test, and if so, how did I do?

    So I met a girl from work on our work vacation, and f-closed within 3 hours of meeting (on the beach, it was an awesome story of game - one of my proudest). We have hooked up twice since then, and texted quite a bit. I've been running game the whole time, making sure not to lose frame at any point. She does a fair amount of congruence tests, of which 95% I just ignore, the other 5% I either agree and amplify or say something cocky-funny to brush it off. I believe I received one from her last night (while I was out sarging for some other girls). Here is the run-down:

    First, she texts me a string of gibberish (literally, just letters strewn together). I presume she wanted me to believe she was drunk. Then, within 2 minutes of receiving the text (which I didn't respond to), she calls me. I answer and say hello 2x, I can hear her talking, but she isn't talking to me, sounded like her room-mate. After saying hello twice and receiving no direct response, I hung up and didn't attempt to text or call. I believe this to be a shit-test on several levels. For what it's worth, when we hang out, she is way into me (buying me drinks, brushing off other guys, trying to get me back to her house, etc).

    What do you guys think?

    Thanks in advance!

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    Default Re: Was this a shit-test, and if so, how did I do?

    or maybe her phone was in her pocket and text / called you accidentally.

    Don't overthink things man. At the end of the day, she's just another HB and it hasn't affected you.

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    Default Re: Was this a sh1t-test, and if so, how did I do?

    Quote Originally Posted by beaker52 View Post
    or maybe her phone was in her pocket and text / called you accidentally.

    Don't overthink things man. At the end of the day, she's just another HB and it hasn't affected you.
    Totally agree, I'm not affected by it (even though I consider her a sure thing, I'm still out every weekend and some week nights sarging). But, it's interesting. I think she wanted me to believe she butt dialed me, because a butt dialed phone the voices would have been muted / mumbly. If she didn't ever hit me up again I wouldn't be the least bit affected, but these types of things are interesting as I learn more about game and upgrade my game status.

    Do you think it's possible it was a shit-test?

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    Default Re: Was this a shit-test, and if so, how did I do?

    Girls are crazy lol. There is probably a chance that she's trying to get your attention and it is a sh!t test. But at the end of the day, like beaker suggested, try not to over think it. You have a good position on this HB, just keep at it. Keep it up! Good frame

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    Default Re: Was this a sh1t-test, and if so, how did I do?

    Quote Originally Posted by rfink View Post
    Do you think it's possible it was a sh1t-test?
    Sure, she might have been checking to see how involved in your night out you were, see how much of your attention she could command.

    You handled it fine. Sh1t Test or not, she'll probably just brush it off like "Sorry I butt dialed you the other night".

    At least if it was a sh1t test, you've sent the message saying "I'm not desperate to respond to communications without purpose when I'm busy doing fun stuff".

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    Default Re: Was this a shit-test, and if so, how did I do?

    Cool, I'm not even going to bring it up to her. Thanks guys!

    One more question: should I wait for her to re-initiate contact, or should I hit her up? I have an opening on Thursday night that I want to fill (hehe....fill)

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    Default Re: Was this a sh1t-test, and if so, how did I do?

    Quote Originally Posted by rfink View Post
    should I wait for her to re-initiate contact, or should I hit her up?
    Go for it. Whatever you'd normally do. It's just business as usual in the rfink camp!

    The mental state needed for the short term:
    "It was just a butt dial - it is of no value or meaning to me, I have better things to do and think about, like sarging, sarging and more sarging!"

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    Default Re: Was this a sh1t-test, and if so, how did I do?

    Quote Originally Posted by beaker52 View Post
    Go for it. Whatever you'd normally do. It's just business as usual in the rfink camp!

    The mental state needed for the short term:
    "It was just a butt dial - it is of no value or meaning to me, I have better things to do and think about, like sarging, sarging and more sarging!"
    Couldn't agree more with this! Just go on like normal, don't over think it. Hit her up and fill up your free time... lol

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    Default Re: Was this a shit-test, and if so, how did I do?

    Thanks, you guys are the best.

    sarging is my new panacea.

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    Default Re: Was this a shit-test, and if so, how did I do?

    exactly how I would of handled it. just keep it casual for now.


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