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    Default She seems fixated on me 'working'

    This girl that I am talking to has a few times asks what I do, am I at work, am I working tonight. It seems a little pushy about my job situation.

    I am starting work at a barback at a bar that is opening in January, so I have assumed that I am working there and portrayed it as so. It seems shes getting suspicious when I told her I did snow removal Friday, and that I was at the bar on Saturday since those are prime bar time hours.

    Regardless, I haven't lied. I simply responded to "aren't you working at the bar tonight" "no doing snow removal for cash".

    I called her on it and she lol'ed but said its because shes very goal oriented. Is this a foreshadowing for a gold digger lol? I'm a broke college student to be honest. I rely on my charm not my bank account.
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    Default Re: She seems fixated on me 'working'

    If she's happy digging the gold of a man working in a bar, then she's gonna insta-climax when she stumbles into a guy with a well paid job, don't you think?

    I think she's more interested to see if you're motivated. And believe me that's different from saying you're motivated. Everyone says they're motivated (unless they're *really* honest with themselves), but far fewer people are demonstrably motivated.

    I'd say she's looking for that, rather than digging a poor mans pockets. (No offense meant, by the way)

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    Default Re: She seems fixated on me 'working'

    No offense taken

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    Default Re: She seems fixated on me 'working'

    She's definitely not gold digging. One way to be sure - never buy her gifts and if you take her out take her somewhere that's not too expensive (assuming you're paying). I think that it really is she just wants to make sure you're motivated. Maybe it's even that in a previous relationship the guy just sat around all day and she had to pay for everything when they went out and she wants a guy who can take care of her. You could also always turn it around on her. "Yeah, I'm at the bar working. Why is it that you never seem to be working :P" (assuming she doesn't work much/at all). Or tell her that once the bar opens she better be a regular, invite her to the opening, things like that.
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