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    Default Got everything down except one thing

    What up players , thought yall can help me out a bit

    okay i've been told i look good , got some potential gf's. my problem is i flirt with touching like hugging , touching their butt, tickling them, sometimes doing stupid stuff and all that other good stuff. but what i need help with is having conversations . my people say the first thing that comes in mind but usually what comes in my mind is what the hell do i say, or damn this girl look real good, or bitching to myself about how other people do it easily and im gonna fark up. sometimes its some lame sh1t. so im asking like way to clear my mind so i can think of conversation starters. something like that, i can keep the convo flowing after that. thanks in advance

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    Default Re: Got everything down except one thing

    so here is 2 things you can look at it...

    1) how do you normal talk to people when you meet them, girls and guys. Think about how you make friends and what does your friends like about you... use those traits and natural skills you have and make use of it.

    2) observe the scene, what are they wearing or how do they look.. what is off about them or what are they doing that's off? For example, they are texting in a corner.. you can open with "you paid money to text in a corner?" and see her response .. ask her who she's here with and politely ask her if she wnats to grab a drink with you (don't pay) or wants to dance for a bit and build rapport in the meantime. It should only take like 4-5 minutes tops.

    key is, either approaches, take her to a place where you can see each other (Isolation) and use your time wisely.

    what you say doesn't matter, just do it in a way that will make her remember the conversation and want more.... don't ask her what she is studying in school or her age or hobbies.. facc that, you know she's into the music the club is playing and she most likely enjoy hanging out with friends.. surprise! (predictable) .. ask her what occasion bring her out, or how you seen someone wear the same dress on the other side of the club, etc.

    Hope this helps.

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    Default Re: Got everything down except one thing

    Just for conversation. What I do is that I pick topics that girls like then chip in a few words and the girls usually continue. Then at that point, I will listen attentively to learn from what they say to use it on other girls. Another thing is that when they get emotional I just say "I understand".

    The usual topics are
    Music
    Fashion
    Family (think they like this one a lot)
    What the wanted to be when they where little
    Recent events

    I think this stuff is for friendly topics for when you want to slow down or for Fluff. hope it helps


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