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    Default Letting the girl win

    I was recently out with a girl, we were having coffee at Mcdonalds. Through the course of our flirting, we got on the topic of tic tac toe. She claimed she was really good at it, then she challenged me. Then I destroyed her. The whole time she was complaining that I should be letting her win. I took it as a Sh1t Test and just said if you want to win be better then me. I think with her it was a sh1t test but is there ever a time when letting them win is a good idea?

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    Default Re: Letting the girl win

    You could have just explained that depending on the opening move the rest of the game is already decided so that she never loses again.

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    Default Re: Letting the girl win

    I was actually in a very similar situation. I was out to a late dinner with a girl I had been seeing and a large group of her friends. We started playing tic tac toe and I would always say if I was going to win or if it would be a tie (she wasn't winning at all) and she asked me how. I then taught her how to play tic tac toe. Yeah, it's kind of lame but it's much better than her complaining that I should let her win! And then you won't get blamed for letting her win either.
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    Default Re: Letting the girl win

    Quote Originally Posted by Ethoex View Post
    I was recently out with a girl, we were having coffee at Mcdonalds. Through the course of our flirting, we got on the topic of tic tac toe. She claimed she was really good at it, then she challenged me. Then I destroyed her. The whole time she was complaining that I should be letting her win. I took it as a Sh1t Test and just said if you want to win be better then me. I think with her it was a sh1t test but is there ever a time when letting them win is a good idea?
    I'm with knight turner on this one, just so u know never let them win.
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    Default Re: Letting the girl win

    Haha I had this happen to me before. I met this HB9 while out at a bar in NYC. She said she was pretty good at street fighter. After a couple of drinks we went back to my place for more drinks and games. I didn't let her win a single match. I did however get in a shyt load of Kino and neg's. Then we started playing for kisses (neck,ear, lips.) ect. Now why she bet anything when she is likely to lose? Talk about a Indicator Of Interest. She eventually blew me Then we had amazing sex. I the morning she kissed me told how i'm such an asshole. We been friends with benefits ever sense. This is the deviant method.
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    Default Re: Letting the girl win

    Of course you let her win. How else do you expect to sleep with her? She has to feel like you will put her first.

    Lol omg that's terrible advice. Don't listen to that.

    Honestly just have fun with it. As long as it's not going stale you're fine. If you spend so much time NOT letting her win it could get boring and she could get irritated. Although letting her win all the time isn't much better. Just don't be so static, but dynamic.
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    Default Re: Letting the girl win

    I dont think this is your problem but i just wanted to say that i always keep it fun... dont get competative lol.

    I saw one friend really get emotional when he lost against a girl. He had been winning and she finally one once and dissed him horribly. He couldn't handle it lol. He should have been ready for a sh!t test but he was AFC.
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    Default Re: Letting the girl win

    Thanks guys that completely answered my question about the situation. I did keep it fun and we played for a large fry which she bought me after I won.


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