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    Default Re: Kiss Close with a friend

    I think that instead of being a fark buddy im a cuddle buddy, i met my friend today and she fixed my turn pants i helped her with some school work and we watched a movie.
    i touched her a little and then hugged her she told me she doesn't like it.
    I thought i should leave a coup[le of times but each time i got up she pulled me back and asked me to stay.
    i decided to get some distance between us but she took my hand and held it all through the rest of the movie.

    Anyone has any idea what to do, I had female friends touching me before but not his way unless they wanted more than friends but this time it doesnt seem to be the case or am i wrong?

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    Default Re: Kiss Close with a friend

    In my opinion you need to stop complying to her touching you. She knows she has that power over you, don't let her man.
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    If you can't say that you would rather die than not do it; you don't want it bad enough.

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    Default Re: Kiss Close with a friend

    was going to say you can have some light "friend like" traits and still make things happen..although I wouldnt recommend merely staying in that light. How it sounded at first...but read below

    Alot of girls manage guys and keep them in the managed state like it sounds with you Fl3my. Theyll do small things but wont let it get past a certain point. Things can never get sexual and if you say anything in that nature it turns them off or they scold you. Especially when it seems like your in a" ok to engage" state to take things to that level.

    Really shows they have control of the situation and if you get suggestive theyll try to tone you down and keep things light and minimal. Girls like these as well dont flirt right and seem distant unless you kneel before them and let them guide the interactions. Weird stuff and definantly lame considering theres 2 people in the interaction and your just a side car along for the ride.

    To identify these girls quickly with minimal effort, see how offended or if they tell you "No" when it comes to basic flirty actions, not even sexual or hinting at them. Easy way to find the ones who want to "wear the pants" in the relationship. NOT FOR ME!!

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    Default Re: Kiss Close with a friend

    Hi just wanted to know is there any point, Freezing Her Out today or for a couple of days, or would that be playing the wrong game here?

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    I recommend you freeze her.

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    well i took the advice she called' I told her i was going shopping.
    she talked about what she had to do for school and then said she is tempted to come with me.
    i said i am only going to buy a few ingredients for a dish i was making and told we will talk ( didnt mention when)
    i hope that counts as a Freeze Out.
    and really i should go for 30 days?, I've been seeing her a lot almost everyday, but i have a feeling she will feel abandoned.
    since we got close, well actually she usually pours her heart out or tells me some secrets that im pretty sure she doesn't tell to most people she doesn't know too much about me.
    waiting for the results and your info.

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    If she feels abandoned that's good, cuz she will tell you that and start chasing her. After the Freeze Out though you have to make a move and if she rejects you then you gotta freeze her again. Just my opinion. Don't respond or take a day to respond to texts and stuff. Other people probably have better advice. My last freeze out lasted 3 weeks, no contact, then she invited to get food submissively and i agreed. I closed that day.
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    Default Re: Kiss Close with a friend

    Ok yesterday i didn't let her come shopping with me and didn't see her.
    Today she called me a couple of times and sent messages on facebook.
    I called her back and she asked me if I got tired of her, I saw this as a good sign she wanted me to come grocery shopping with her, I told her i just got out of the shower(which is true).
    she said i'ts alright she wouldn't want me to get sick shell go alone.
    I told her to come over after she finishes she agreed.
    well now i'm waiting for her I'll update later.

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    well here is the update, i'm getting frustrated she came by we talked for a little and she wanted me to come to her place to help her win an article.
    when we sat i touched her on the back and thigh and she directed my hand to her lower back, saying of om already touching because she said she had a stomach ache.
    after we finished I gave her a leg massage which she like she only go a little nervous when my hand were getting close to her crotch when i was doing her inner thigh.
    after that she moved to the bad and i did her back this time i almost got her shirt off my hands weren't just underneath the shirt. after that she started giving me a neck massage I didnt want to continue because the hour was late and I knew she had a test in the morning.
    we hugged and i kissed her forehead im not sure if she moved her head or that i just chickend out (probably both) well now all i have left is the smell of her body lotion on my hands.
    Is there any point freezing her again or should i try something else before?

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    finally!! a good update, i met my friend today and well we saw a movie and we spooned, after some time i kissed her neck and then her lips(have to thank the kiss guide on this site) we strated making out.
    she was topless but i couldn't go further because she stopped me( we both have college tomorrow ) and even though i didn't F close i have to thank you guys for the support, the whole triangle thing and the Freeze Out worked all was left was for me to grow some balls.
    i guess now i just have to check about LMR and stuff Any advice?


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