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Thread: Best ways to open guys in a mixed set?

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    Default Best ways to open guys in a mixed set?

    I'm looking for some good advice on how to open up guys in a set of girls and guys. I was at a club last night with tons a beautiful girls and completely blanked from being out of the game for a couple weeks.

    So, I tried opening up a set with a guy and two HB's but bombed pretty hard because I couldn't demonstrate my "alpha-ness"...I know I'll have better results once I learn to befriend the guys in the group better.

    Any advice?

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    Default Re: Best ways to open guys in a mixed set?

    Me: (Say to the guy), "Oh my god, where did you get that shirt?"

    Guy: *Responds*

    Me: "I have to rejoin my friends in minute, but the reason I'm asking is because my ex-girlfriend actual stole a shirt of mine that was exactly like that one! I was hoping that wasn't where you got it. Now I feel like I have to buy 2 of everything I like just in case one gets stolen.


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    Default Re: Best ways to open guys in a mixed set?

    Not half bad..thanks a lot!

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    Default Re: Best ways to open guys in a mixed set?

    Well you mentioned it in your first post. Befriend the guys in the set. You have 2 options.

    1. You could AMOG the guys
    2. Befriend the guys.

    Basically to befriend te guys you would need to game them. Be confident, fun and social. If there is a mixed set that I am introduced to or happen to strike up a conversation with I will automatically introduce myself to the guys first. Once I'm introduced to everyone then I will start conversations with the guys. Get them laughing as that will lower their guard and they will see you as a social guy and not one that's trying to steal the girls in their set.

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    Default Re: Best ways to open guys in a mixed set?

    But, let's be honest, amoging is so much more fun and moves the process along much faster! Sure, it's a lot less humble, and I'm probably a terrible person for encouraging it, but have fun! Lol.
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    Default Re: Best ways to open guys in a mixed set?

    Ehh, you don't even need to open the guys. These days I just open the girl directly and take it from there.

    She's not their property, so why the fuck would I want their permission or approval before talking her?

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    Default Re: Best ways to open guys in a mixed set?

    I like Kaybee's idea the most.
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    Default Re: Best ways to open guys in a mixed set?

    It's not about getting their approval but more about being social. Make new friends wherever you go. Being social with a mixed set could help you so much. I remember I was gaming this HB9 but I wasnt doing so well. I had made friends with the guys in the set and the one turned out to help and basically became a wingman I never asked for. I ended up k closing and n closing the lady which was a childhood friend of his

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    Default Re: Best ways to open guys in a mixed set?

    Yeah although AMOG'ing the guys is a lot of fun it can go wrong, i find sometimes it results in a lot of negative Tension in the set and even if your game is good if the target is friends with the guy and he wants to leave she's likely to follow, bros before hoes and all that. I generally AMOG if they obv don't know eachother very well and then befriend the guys if they know eachother already. Although I normally don't bother approaching if they seem to know eachother I CBA with the hassle, plenty of other sets around normally :L

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    Default Re: Best ways to open guys in a mixed set?

    @linking...best answer by far

    HB + Guy she doesn't know = AMOG the sh!t out of hiim

    HB + Guy she's friends with = Become social and friendly with him
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