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    Default New year party hook up, help!

    First post!

    So, new year was awesome. Me and my friends went to a big nightclub, and we were basically just chilling and enjoying ourselves. I didn't really have any expectations for the night, I just wanted to enjoy myself.

    So at one point, my bro's go get some drinks and I decide to go on a solo mission on the dance floor. I dance there for a while by myself. Then, behind me, I see this drop dead gorgeous girl, a 9.5/10. She was looking at me so I winked my eyes and she smiled. I went a bit closer and she started talking to me. I heard nothing she said so I just told her to dance with me. We dance there for a while, and I show her some of my dancefloor magic (strong part of my game!). We end up making up passionately for a couple of songs.

    We went back and forth between the dance floor and a random corner in the bar. On the next run dancing, I start going down her pants while I'm grinding her from the behind. She loves it, so I move underneath her panties. After doing that for a while, we go off the dance floor to make out some more, I get her number and go find my friends.

    So, there were definitely a LOT of ioi's all night. She initiated the conversation in the beginning. When we went to get drinks, she constantly kept pulling me closer to her. She also asked about my friends and possible girlfriend. She also went down my pants, while dancing.

    Anyways, the problem is, I didn't talk to her that much, we were mostly busy doing other things. My verbal game is not up to par with my physical game. I'm very good at showing girls interest on the dance floor, but when we leave, it usually gets a bit awkward.

    So anyways, the following day I text her, and I'm not getting a response. My text wasn't any of the normal crap. First off, I didn't even mind that she didn't reply, I was just so proud of myself that I got so far with a feaking 9.5.

    But then I found these forums. I thought to myself "heck, these guys might have some good ideas on how to contact her". So, I hope that some of you might help me out a little.

    I don't really care if it doesn't work, at least I know what to do better next time!

    Hope everyone has a successful 2013!

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    Default Re: New year party hook up, help!

    I'm not the most experienced at this, but I'll give this a shot.

    hell, if she doesn't text you back or call at all, maybe she's gone, but bro, you totally ruled on that one. Just add that to your confidence-boosting-repertoire to make yourself (even more) confident next time you walk into a nightclub or bar.

    good luck!
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    Default Re: New year party hook up, help!

    Quote Originally Posted by theSkap View Post
    I'm not the most experienced at this, but I'll give this a shot.

    hell, if she doesn't text you back or call at all, maybe she's gone, but bro, you totally ruled on that one. Just add that to your confidence-boosting-repertoire to make yourself (even more) confident next time you walk into a nightclub or bar.

    good luck!
    Yeah, pretty much what I thought too! But then again, she's a 9.5 and I have nothing to lose, so if I somehow get her to contact me back, all the better. If she doesn't, well, life goes on!

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    Default Re: New year party hook up, help!

    you probably know this, but do NOT HARRASS HER!!!
    wait a week, two, three... ask her if she remembers you etc...

    if she's that great, give it time... great things take lots of time.

    Good Luck!
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    Default Re: New year party hook up, help!

    welcome (y)

    what did you even text her?

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    Default Re: New year party hook up, help!

    I asked if it's her (she teased about giving a fake number, I know it's real though), and I told I had a good time dancing with her, but my foot hurts now (she stomped on it real hard and was very apologetic about that).

    Well, probably could have been better, but done is done :P

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    Default Re: New year party hook up, help!

    Well, I gave it some more thought, and I came to a conclusion:

    She simply got bored.

    Even though the making out, dancing, and the rest was awesome (there were sparks flying, shooting stars around us and so on ), I probably overstayed my welcome. I'm not experienced enough to tell when I need to do a # close and get the fark out. I got too caught up in the process of making out with this hottie that I lost the track of time, and probably, her in the process.

    She seemed very experienced. I wasn't paying enough attention, and she slipped away. Nevertheless, it was awesome.

    So, any tips on how long to stay with girls, and when to leave, even though things are going great? I am familiar with the concept of leaving them wanting more, but I guess I lack the confidence to leave because I think that they'll just move on to the next jackass at the club.

    Opinions?

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    Default Re: New year party hook up, help!

    Did you tell her to come back to your place for an after party or a nightcap?

    From what I can guess, she's probably disappointed you didn't go all the way.

    As far as how long to stay with girls and when to leave, I will just say to always try to leave with them if you feel things are going great.

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    Default Re: New year party hook up, help!

    Yes, that is definitely an option.

    The only reason I didn't even try was that I'm on vacation from college, so I'm staying with my parents and they were home. In hindsight, I should have tried it because we have a big apartment, but anyways, the awkwardness would would be on a whole another level if my either of my parents decided to step into my room whilst we're doing it, and the girl would probably be lost.

    If you're trying to leave with a girl, do you just bluntly say it, or are you trying to be a bit more subtle?

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    Default Re: New year party hook up, help!

    The good ol "movie at my place" still works.

    If your place doesn't work out, check her logistics. If the logistics are good, you can bounce to her place.

    PUA:Hey, I'm getting a bit hungry. Got any food at your place?
    Her: Whatever
    PUA: Cool let's head there


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