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    Default How do you game the "one of the guys" type of girl

    This is referring to my last post about this girl in my final design project for my engineering program. To summarize, I am project leader (alpha), today I convinced everybody my design for our project is the best choice (alpha again), and I am overall trying to display as many alpha traits as possible while in this group.

    This girl is essentially a "one of the guys" type of girl, she has a lot of guy friends, knows she's hot and has a lot of guys talking to her and trying to hit on her. She has shutdown a lot of guys from our program( i know this because there's only 100 students in our program and we generally stay together and are in the same classes) and this is the first time that me and her are in the same class/group together.

    I would like some tips on how to game this type of girl, she's also a "gamer chick".
    I isolated her today and asked her to come to get coffee with me in between classes and I made her laugh a lot. She was falling asleep so I playfully poked her to wake her up. Overall I kept it playful and fun but I would like to escalate so I don't fall in the friend zone.

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    Default Re: How do you game the "one of the guys" type of girl

    Sounds like you're doing a pretty good job. I dated a "one of the guys" type of girl. You definitely need to play up the cocky, funny, alpha shit, otherwise you're just "one of the guys" she's friends with. The girl I dated like that mentioned she was really turned on when I grabbed her phone and put my number in it when we first met. I'm not saying do that, but act accordingly.

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    Default Re: How do you game the "one of the guys" type of girl

    your are doing fine just make sure she knows or thinks you have some girls on the side, I really recommend the whole triangle technique, worked for me like a charm.
    by the way another advice is ,try making people in your surroundings to think of you as a couple without being to obvious.
    if you succeed in doing that they will probably hint it to the to of you or even tell you that out on the open.
    this will make her think of you as a couple.

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    Default Re: How do you game the "one of the guys" type of girl

    How's your Kino and flirting? If you haven't done much of either then you are heading directly to the friend zone. You can't let her know she intimidates you. For all you know she is intimidated by you! So have a strong frame and always assume attraction.

    Learn to qualify. You want her to show you why she would be a good fit for you. Not the other way around. However, she is more likely to make a good attempt and trying to show you if she is attracted to you first. That's why you use kino and flirt with her.

    You may be worried about the fact she's rejected so many guys. So you think if you take it slow and play safe you are increasing you're chances. You're not. You'll just be heading to the friend zone.

    How do you effectively hit on her without rejection like she's done before? A nice little technique is called a disqualifier.

    There are many kinds. But it helps to Disarm her so that you aren't getting that auto shield she has up to every guy that hits on her. Some examples would be telling her that you only date black/asian/spanish/white women. (whatever she is not) Or that you love tall/short women. (whatever she isn't.) This will disarm her because now she's thinking there's no way you're interested in her now. So when you do get closer to each other and discover things about her you can then start to express interest based on her character and not her looks.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: How do you game the "one of the guys" type of girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Konstantin View Post
    This is referring to my last post about this girl in my final design project for my engineering program. To summarize, I am project leader (alpha), today I convinced everybody my design for our project is the best choice (alpha again), and I am overall trying to display as many alpha traits as possible while in this group.

    This girl is essentially a "one of the guys" type of girl, she has a lot of guy friends, knows she's hot and has a lot of guys talking to her and trying to hit on her. She has shutdown a lot of guys from our program( i know this because there's only 100 students in our program and we generally stay together and are in the same classes) and this is the first time that me and her are in the same class/group together.

    I would like some tips on how to game this type of girl, she's also a "gamer chick".
    I isolated her today and asked her to come to get coffee with me in between classes and I made her laugh a lot. She was falling asleep so I playfully poked her to wake her up. Overall I kept it playful and fun but I would like to escalate so I don't fall in the friend zone.
    U my friend have got urself a TDR the private danser (from pandoras box). I don't have time to explain this stuff right now but here is what she likes to hear (how her ideal man thinks)
    1. Iím not unfriendly, but most people arenít worth my time. I believe in treating people with respect, but Iím not the kind of person who just trusts someone right off the bat. You have to earn that from me. Thatís why I donít get all serious with women like most guys do. You have to just see where things go Ė if the person is worth your time, then cool, but otherwise, you gotta keep it moving.
    2. You have so much to offer, but you keep yourself protected. I know why though. On the outside you seem unapproachable and intimidating. But thatís because you have so much to give. And you want to give yourself. Thatís why itís scary for you. So you need to protect yourself. I donít ever want you to feel unprotected when youíre with me Ė because thatís more important than anything else Ė that you are safe when youíre with me.
    3. I want to taste your cooking. Most girls donít know how to cook, which sucks for me because Iím always trying to get better at that. I think making new dishes is fun Ė even if you screw it up. I can see us making something realllllly good together.

    -conversation:
    Don't give her specific compliments about her body or even clothes just a simple i like u're style
    -u can talk to her about anything just like u're guy friends but don't get psycological Realists don't like it at all
    -Keep things upbeat, in motion and cut out all sexual intent
    -u should be doing stuff together (like concrete stuff u know playing sports.......)
    If u need more help pm me
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    Default Re: How do you game the "one of the guys" type of girl

    Can you tell me how i did in this conversation? Thanks!

    1) - http://tinypic.com/r/2zy924j/6
    2) - http://tinypic.com/r/2vts9bl/6
    3) - http://tinypic.com/r/14y02yx/6
    4) - http://tinypic.com/r/xe4b6h/6

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    Default Re: How do you game the "one of the guys" type of girl

    The first two were normal Fluff talk although u were a bit pushy on the her coming to uni.
    -u recovered in the third by dhv ing that u're with 2 girls and that u don't want to be pushy(good) but in the end u re said come if u want (not so good)
    -good on the not helping her thing
    -4th image, nice push and pull, (terrible liar thing) she told u she's triyng to be cuter ioi, u then IOD her y?
    -over all it was good not great but good and i liked that she was the one doing most of the talking
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    Default Re: How do you game the "one of the guys" type of girl

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    -good on the not helping her thing
    -4th image, nice push and pull, (terrible liar thing) she told u she's triyng to be cuter ioi, u then IOD her y?
    I wasn't trying to IOD her but tease her a bit.

    Also what do I do when it comes to helping her at school? She IS in my group project so we HAVE to work together. I don't want to become the guy that she can always go to and I end up getting nothing in return.

    Quote Originally Posted by xavier View Post
    -over all it was good not great but good and i liked that she was the one doing most of the talking
    What can I do to make the conversation more interesting without coming off like I'm trying too hard? Or get her to initiate conversation with me on her own?

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    Default Re: How do you game the "one of the guys" type of girl

    Quote Originally Posted by Konstantin View Post
    I wasn't trying to IOD her but tease her a bit.

    Also what do I do when it comes to helping her at school? She IS in my group project so we HAVE to work together. I don't want to become the guy that she can always go to and I end up getting nothing in return.



    What can I do to make the conversation more interesting without coming off like I'm trying too hard? Or get her to initiate conversation with me on her own?
    -I really don't care what u're trying to do u did it wrong learn from it
    -Would u treat another girl like that? if yes then help her
    -she's a realist so talk about real world things and situations like politics, sports.....
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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