Re: How do you game the "one of the guys" type of girl
How's your Kino and flirting? If you haven't done much of either then you are heading directly to the friend zone. You can't let her know she intimidates you. For all you know she is intimidated by you! So have a strong frame and always assume attraction.
Learn to qualify. You want her to show you why she would be a good fit for you. Not the other way around. However, she is more likely to make a good attempt and trying to show you if she is attracted to you first. That's why you use kino and flirt with her.
You may be worried about the fact she's rejected so many guys. So you think if you take it slow and play safe you are increasing you're chances. You're not. You'll just be heading to the friend zone.
How do you effectively hit on her without rejection like she's done before? A nice little technique is called a disqualifier.
There are many kinds. But it helps to Disarm her so that you aren't getting that auto shield she has up to every guy that hits on her. Some examples would be telling her that you only date black/asian/spanish/white women. (whatever she is not) Or that you love tall/short women. (whatever she isn't.) This will disarm her because now she's thinking there's no way you're interested in her now. So when you do get closer to each other and discover things about her you can then start to express interest based on her character and not her looks.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."