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Thread: Stopped cold in my tracks

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    Default Stopped cold in my tracks

    I have already proven to myself I can approach 50 women in a weekend easy however one woman stopped me cold. We have only exchange a couple passing sentences yet I couldn't approach her in my weekly ukulele group.

    She didn't show up all dressed up and was actually wearing sweats with frizzy uncombed hair. On top of that she has the constant pink cold nose. Nothing intimidating about her I just couldn't approach.

    Should I approach her first thing next time I see her or operate more indirectly?

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    Default Re: Stopped cold in my tracks

    Just dont think about her. Thats what does the worst to us. Oneitis. As long as you dont think about what you'll do, and fi you just do it in the spur of the moment, you will succeed with ease. More you think about what to do, the harder it will be.

    That is why i will not give you any advice in telling you what to say, because that would be detrimental. You'd think abotu it, how to say it, etc. As soon as you see her, say hi. See where it goes from there. The SECOND you see her. i dont care if its in an akward position, shes in a car and you arnt, etc. Do it.

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    Default Re: Stopped cold in my tracks

    Sounds fun can't wait to say hi to her. Hope it is in a very unnatural state.

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    Default Re: Stopped cold in my tracks

    Lol Big Shawn is a bit brash, but he does have a point. Just be cautious about how much thought you put into her. But hell, those emotions feel so good so I wouldn't tell you to try and NOT feel them. Just conduct yourself regardless of those feelings.

    You do have to take her off the pedestal eventually so as to not risk any AFC behavior when you interact with her. Look at her as a dork. She is imperfect. There WILL be things you don't like about her. And lastly, remember, all girls shit.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Stopped cold in my tracks

    shes in a car and you arnt, etc. Do it.
    pretend like she ran you over just dont hurt urself when u do it haha

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    Default Re: Stopped cold in my tracks

    Lol.....'all girls shit' , in hysterics right now :L

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Stopped cold in my tracks

    Thanks for all the help. Also I'm not really putting her on a pedestal I just found my self uncomfortable with approaching.

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    Default Re: Stopped cold in my tracks

    if you feel yourself uncomfortable approaching her, do some breathing exercises to relief the Tension... fast exhales and inhales... psych yourself up and dont over think it... just say hi... and smile!! a genuine smile


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