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    Default Need openers for waitresses, girls working on a stand

    Hey,

    always coming accross cute waitresses and girls working on stands like coffee places or restaurants. Could please shed some light?

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    Default Re: Need openers for waitresses, girls working on a stand

    seconded. there's actually a counter girl at this restaurant I pick-up food from a lot I'm trying to figure how to approach (especially when a bunch of other people are around).

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    Default Re: Need openers for waitresses, girls working on a stand

    I am new to the game, however, I have had some interesting interactions with waitresses that are serving me when I break the waitress/customer role. The sooner you can break through that barrier the sooner YOU will stand out. One of the better ways to do this that I have found is to try and ask personal questions playfully. NOT invasive or creepy personal questions. For instance:

    Her: What can I get you guys

    Me: What is your FAVORITE thing to eat here

    Her: Well x is good, we have a special on x, and a lot of people like x

    Me: ...(Pause look her in the eyes and say with a smile) No no no, what is YOUR favorite thing to eat here. When you get done with your shift, and you are starving at the end of a long day, and you head to the restaurant kitchen to get something to eat what do you make?

    (Often girls will make some sort of off menu item that only the staff eats or mixes two menu items or puts special sauce on it or what not)

    Her: well actually I love...

    Me: That sounds amazing, make me that please (with a smile)

    Her: really? Ok ill have them do that

    Me: ...oh no, its your special dish, you make it for me (smiling)

    Her: laughs etc...

    At this point I have usually broken through the barrier, even if she doesn't have some personal dish she likes to have made there you have started to break down that barrier or at least opened up the opportunity for new threads that can lead away from restaurant talk.

    Anyways, I am new but every time I do this I have fun and it ALWAYS gets her smiling and in a more friendly mood. Just make sure you are not being a creep about it and don't act too weird.

    Hope it helps, have fun!

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    Default Re: Need openers for waitresses, girls working on a stand

    I work in a bar, so i have some oportunities to see how some costumers try to pick up some of my girls workmates...and if it's something that u should NOT do, is tip her. I mean, if they have a tip jug, put your coins there, fine, but NEVER give to her a note. That will put you in the caverman/gorilla cathegory.

    Otherwise, as Flyboy said, be funny and happy. I like to shoot a couple of times, funny questions or sentences, that could catch her atention. Also, if you look at her, and she smile to you, BINGO that is the first ioi. She's gonna be there the rest of your lunch, so try to (step by step) get more info about her, so you can improve your spech based on her things!

    Slowly but surely you will go ahead!


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