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Thread: University Classroom and Asking Unknown Girl Out

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    Default University Classroom and Asking Unknown Girl Out

    Hi guys,

    RelationshipRookie here. I'm in my 3rd year of University and never had a girlfriend or too much intimate experience before. 2013 has arrived and my NYR is to be more proactive to boost my love life. What I need is advice in regards to asking girls out cold.

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    There's this really cute/gorgeous girl in one of my classes. I'm trying to rack up the nerves to ask her out, even though I haven't talked to her before, and we don't know each others names. I was thinking of going up to her before or after class and saying something like "Hey, I'm Rookie, and I think you're really cute/attractive/(Aesthetic Compliment) . If you're not busy this weekend, I was wondering if you'd like to go out?"

    I've never asked a girl out (though I've been asked out a few times) so I'm feeling a little anxious as to how this will play out. I reckon after I do though (irrespective of the outcome), asking girls out will be a breeze as I have overcome this lifelong hurdle.

    What do you guys think?

    Thanks,
    RelationshipRookie

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    Default Re: University Classroom and Asking Unknown Girl Out

    Seems like a good idea although you may panic at the last minute and stutter. Don't let that bother you though. Just try and stay confident and don't be afraid to tease her a little.

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    Default Re: University Classroom and Asking Unknown Girl Out

    I'd try to build a connection before asking, but you can just ask as well. This is all about getting over your fears and becoming a better person. Just go for it.

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    Default Re: University Classroom and Asking Unknown Girl Out

    Okay thanks guys. How did your first time asking a girl work out? What did you say and how did she respond?

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    Default Re: University Classroom and Asking Unknown Girl Out

    First time I asked a girl out I was in 4th grade and she told me I was ugly lol.

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    Default Re: University Classroom and Asking Unknown Girl Out

    That made me laugh harder than I should...And christ you were 10. I hope puberty changed that reaction for you? (There was this thread on reddit about "ugly ducklings" becoming supafly) Mate when I was 10 CounterStrike and Half Life were the only things on my mind. I'm a late starter.

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    Default Re: University Classroom and Asking Unknown Girl Out

    mmmmm the first time i asked??? it dosent really was a directly question. a friend of mine was going to have a birthday party, and i meet the girl in the hall of the university, and i sayed...''hey, did you hear about the party on Saturday?.. ''yes'', see you there.

    it was like an order. jeje

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    Default Re: University Classroom and Asking Unknown Girl Out

    Not to scare you away, but the first time I ever asked a girl out was in 6th grade, and she responded, and I quote, "I would kick you in the balls... if you even had any." This, naturally, was quite traumatic and it took until like 11th grade to ask anyone out again lol. Now, in college, I have no problem at all doing it, but just be forewarned you might get a really shitty response, and not to take it personally. Good luck!
    -amazingJay

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    Default Re: University Classroom and Asking Unknown Girl Out

    Hey I actually asked her out a while back. Essentially I said, "Hey so I just had to meet you because I think you're really cute and was wondering if you'd like to go out sometime in the near future?". Good thing is I've "moved on", sometimes I'd get so engrossed in finding the "Perfect"moment to ask her out, and either get consumed thinking about her. I've asked out another two girls since. Inner confidence boosted, it's getting easier

    And I realize there could be a hundred and one reasons why she doesn't want to go out with you so yeah, I won't take anything too personally.


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