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    Default Height really matter?

    Hello, I am Brazilian and I am translating this text through Google, I do not know if you managed to understand.

    I am 1.67 tall, a little below average, I feel inferior about it, do not know why this got this Limiting Belief, I know I will not win anything like this but my EGO wants to kill me, shorties are the guys know how life is.

    I'd like to do something to reverse it: A challenge or something constructive?

    What do you think?

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    Default Re: Height really matter?

    your height won't hurt you nearly as much as you believing it does, just be warned...some women just don't date short guys. Every woman is different, you just have to accept that.
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    Default Re: Height really matter?

    I'm attracted to taller girls. I have dated a few chics taller than me.

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    Default Re: Height really matter?

    IMO to some extent. LIke Blistex said some girls won't date shorter guys. Its all game baby.

    I have a friend who is like 5"5 and he always managed to pull ladies who are a few inches taller. Hopefully you can take that as a challenge!

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    Default Re: Height really matter?

    Height is judged socially not biologically.

    What I mean is that if you are 5'4'' and suddenly every man on earth over 5'3'' died, you would be more attractive height wise as one of the tallest men around.

    Where if you are say 25 kilo overweight and suddenly any men thinner died, you would still be biologically unattractive.

    So basically as long as you aren't standing near overtly tall guys that make you look extra short, and they don't have a built in knee jerk bias you can get "in the door" which is all you really need.

    Basically if they weren't famous, Brad Pitt at 5'2'' would get women more easily than a 6'5'' Danny Devito. Your height means less than maybe 3 or 4 other factors appearance wise alone, much less game wise.

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    Default Re: Height really matter?

    There is a very strong belief in society that height is attractive. But it is nothing you can't overcome.

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    Default Re: Height really matter?

    Look at Lovedrop from Love system. Dude's not fat but still.. I have a friend who's round and tall. He gets the girls anyways. Because if you're a cool guy and even if a girl has the single guts to tell you ''No I don't do fat guys'' You can just shrug and leave go like ''That's a shame, I don't think guys like stuck up girls neither, ciaaao.''

    Weight doesn't matter, looks don't matter. It only matters if you think they do. Like me at first I stressed if I wasn't dressed correctly or had a huge pimple showing. Basicly its all in your head, if people are horrible enough to comment about it. Be sure not to react to it, even more you can agree and make their comment worthless.

    ''Ew, you're fat''

    ''Yeeah, I noticed.. Isn't it awsome?'' then leave. Simple. Don't take shit from no one.

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    Default Re: Height really matter?

    Here's the truth of the matter. I have a psychology background, so I see a lot of research that comes my way. There have been many studies done about what women initially find attractive and what guys do. The #1 thing that the woman sees and cares about is height. So yes, if you are short, you may start a little behind. But like many of the guys are saying, you can overcome it. Nobody's perfect. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. The difference is, successful people with women, or in life, are the ones that focus on their strengths and NOT their weaknesses. I'm 5 10", and there's been a handful of women i dated that were taller than me, especially with heels, and I loved it. I really really loved it. People would stare at us, and I would think it's the funniest coolest thing. Plus I love having sex with tall women. Very long sexy backs, etc.
    The world is your matrix. You control the strings.

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    AlphaBrasileiro: There is NO SUCH THING as women who are not attracted or who don't date short men, no such thing, and I will PROVE that to you in these next paragraphs. I know this is a lengthy reply but I spent a lot of time writing it to help you and prove once and for all that anyone who says that height can stop certain women from being attracted to you are giving you bad advice because they don't fully understand how attraction works within women's internal hardwiring.

    First off, lets start with just a few of the millions of examples that prove otherwise. Yes there are MILLIONS of short men who are VERY successful at attracting 9s and 10s. I personally know men who are and I know of a countless number of men who are very short, in wheel chairs, and even one guy named Nick Vujicic who was born without arms and legs, who each have had incredible success with many GORGEOUS women and each went on to marry a 10. In fact, watch some youtube videos of Sean Stevenson and Nick Vujicic, especially his motivational speeches and the videos of him and his gorgeous wife. He is not a PUA but its his amazing positive attitude that will help you understand that your height is only a limitation if you make it one, PERIOD!

    Watch videos of Sean Stevenson. He is a PUA who is 3 foot tall!! Yes, 3 foot tall and in a wheel chair yet he is AMAZING with women and now has a gorgeous wife who is beyond a 10 (and no Sean is not wealthy). These guys prove that our success can either be achieved or destroyed by our beliefs.

    Secondly, lets dissect your limiting belief and see if its true or false. This goes for anyone who has any type of limiting belief:

    Whenever you have a negative, limiting belief that you want to fix, ask yourself these questions:

    Are there men who are (insert belief, in your case who are 1.67 tall or less) that have had success with beautiful women???

    Has their ever been a woman who HAS been attracted to you??

    If you keep this limiting belief, where will your life be, especially with women and dating, in 1 year? 5 years?? 10 years??

    If you fix this negative belief, where will your life be in 1 year? 5 years?? 10 years??

    Has every man who is of your height or below not had success with women and dating??

    Has every man who is your height gone their entire lives and not had a single women like them??

    Could it be true that it's not your height that is interfering with your success with women but that your simply not grabbing her attention initially??

    Could it be true that it's not your height that is interfering with your success with women but that women, being that they are very intuitive and great at sensing a man's level of confidence, are sensing a you are lacking confidence because it is just being held back by this limiting belief?? A belief that if fixed would allow you to go onto have incredible confidence which inevitably would result in incredible success especially because women will find that incredible confidence to be irresistible???

    Do you believe that you are an (list as many positive qualities about yourself that you can think of, ask others for some of these qualities, you'll be amazed at the answers you'll receive plus you'll get a huge and instantaneous boost to your confidence) examples: incredible, powerful, fun, humorous, healthy. leader, positive, confident, creative, amazing in bed, knows how to make a women feel incredible, intelligent, desirable, attractive, alpha) man that, if you can fix this limiting belief or beliefs that is/are simply blocking you from revealing all of these incredible qualities, that you will then be able to approach, attract, date, seduce, and be the best thing that has ever happened to each and every women you so desire???

    By simply asking yourself these basic questions, you will be able to prove that your limiting belief is completely false.

    Thirdly, now that we know this belief is false, what is the difference between men of your height who are successful with women and the ones who aren't???
    Answer: Time and time again, we see men prove that attraction with women has very little to do with our outer appearance and everything to do with being your BEST self, always improving your best self, and PUSHING A WOMAN'S INTERNAL BUTTONS OF ATTRACTION. It doesn't matter what you look like, how tall you are, or if they claim that "they don't date short men", if your always improving your inner self/game, revealing to her your best self, take care and special attention to how you present what you have (dress, expressing your inner self through your own unique style of clothing, hygiene, health, your teeth, etc.) and most importantly you push her internal buttons of attraction, SHE WILL HAVE NO CHOICE IN THE MATTER, SHE WILL BE ATTRACTED TO YOU!! Like a series of light switches, it does NOT matter who is pushing a woman's internal buttons of attraction and what that person looks like, if they learn how to push them, the attraction is ON! Why do you think they call becoming sexually aroused is called being "turned on"??

    Let me know if this helps you see that your limiting belief is completely false. Also, anytime you feel that belief come up for you, keep asking yourself those questions until the belief is gone for good. Try it for 30 days and message me to let me know how much progress your having. Seriously, I am very interested in hearing how much this will help you.

    Good Luck My Friend,

    DaVinci

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    Default Re: Height really matter?

    It should all depend on what the girl's preferences are. Some just aren't into tall guys and vice versa


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