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Thread: "what do you think about me?" strong ioi? opinions!

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    Default "what do you think about me?" strong ioi? opinions!

    So i was at a party last weekend, and i saw this girl that i went to high school with (HB9). I haven't seen her since i learned PUA techniques, so i decided to run game on her.

    Well.... things didn't go as well as i wanted them to... or so i thought.

    She was acting cold towards me after a few minutes of talking to her, had her Bitch Shield up ect. When things were starting to go south, i decided to move her. ("hey, lets go sit on the couch")

    So we were sitting on the couch, and she became a little warmer. Then somehow (i forget how, had a little bit to drink) we got on the subject of integrity, the truth ect.

    She said something along the lines of "well most guys are liars anyway, so it doesn't matter." in response to a statement i made.

    I replied "Well, i'm a pretty straight up guy. I tell the truth, because lying isn't worth it in the long run."

    Then she asked "oh yeah? so tell me the truth. what do you think about me?"

    Since there were no other girls in the room at the time (just some drunk guys watching something on tv) I jokingly responded with, "well, you're definitely the most attractive girl in the room right now."

    She responded pretty well to that, and the night ended with me getting her number.

    My question to you guys, is this. Is the above question a strong ioi? This is the first time i've gotten this question, and it seems like it would be a pretty strong ioi in most cases. Have you guys ever gotten this question? how did you respond?

    Looking forward to your responses!

    Take care,

    Gunnar

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    Default Re: "what do you think about me?" strong ioi? opinions!

    "oh yeah? so tell me the truth. what do you think about me?"
    is NOT a strong ioi, it may be tiny but not a strong one, it's a simple question that is raised and most women ask when you say this (what you were saying)
    at that point tell her everything she's not, or call her a jerk (with a slight smile) either one is good and then flip it back on her

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    Default Re: "what do you think about me?" strong ioi? opinions!

    I agree with hyp. I wouldn't consider that a strong ioi in any sense. She is more then likely asking you that question to see if you are like every other guy that hits on her. She responded well to your response but consider yourself lucky. Im sure you done it in a funny way so that helped you.

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    Default Re: "what do you think about me?" strong ioi? opinions!

    Yeah I agree with hyp and supremo.

    She is looking for validation here, you did ok, but if you had really been honest and told her how you felt you would have blown it by showing too much interest too soon.

    I would have said "well my mum said if you don't have anything nice to say... " in a jokey fashion.

    Or something like "please put your rod away, I can see you fishing for a compliment "

    I also like hyps approach of calling her a jerk.

    Essentially a lot of flirting hinges on refusing to answer questions directly, make them work a little harder to find things out.

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    Default Re: "what do you think about me?" strong ioi? opinions!

    Thanks for the responses, guys. Looking back, i definitely could have responded better. I'm glad i didn't completely blow it though. And, yes i did say my response in a funny tone.

    I'm still in the middle of putting the idea of indirectly answering questions into practice. Some times i can't think of anything clever enough to say at the moment. I'm getting better though!

    Thanks again for the input.

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    Default Re: "what do you think about me?" strong ioi? opinions!

    I would have said "well my mum said if you don't have anything nice to say... " in a jokey fashion.
    now that is probably the best one of the lot


    Some times i can't think of anything clever enough to say at the moment. I'm getting better though!
    been there, it happens to everyone, this is just a thought for that

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-seduce-...html#post80600

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    Default Re: "what do you think about me?" strong ioi? opinions!

    I actually see this as a shit test... I could be mistaken. But she wants to see if you're just another buttery guy that'll tell her ("I think you're amazing blah blah blah").

    So yes, I agree with hyp. At that point, tell her anything except the truth, and make it outrageously funny.
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