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    shortandgoofy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Two girls sitting together at the bar

    Some find this scenario the easiest, and some (like me) the hardest. The textbook says, obviously, that you go in with a wingman, and just casually start talking to them both, and share good laughs, and then things magically fall into place. Except that, just the last part does not happen. I have done that s*** many times - yes, it definitely works if all you want to do is chill out for some time with two pretty girls, but that's about it. This is why PUAs don't follow the usually-broadcasted "textbooks", right?

    So, here's my question - how do I make the most of this scenario? My goal is to - start a conversation, leading to any kind of close (N/K/F - any!) Additional points - I often venture out by myself, and I do not want that to be a deterrent. Usually, when I get asked why I am by myself, I say the prepared lines - "Meh, I was here with my friend, but he's seriously the lamest guy ever. He left because he had work in the morning!" and then proceed to cook an opener with how lame this "friend out of thin air" can really get.

    But we're digressing from the main point here. So, in summary, here's my question - two pretty girls sitting and drinking at a bar and chatting, and I like one (or both) of them. What's my strategy of approach, conversation, and closing?

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    new2SF is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Two girls sitting together at the bar

    Hi, It's good that you are making an approach. I just joined the forums, so I will chime in with 2 basic things and lets the gurus give more inputs. First, never dish out on your friends or people you hangout with, it lowers your own value in the eyes of girls. Secondly, it mostly works for me when I am able to move the girl/s from the bar to a different location. Probably that also indicates their buying temperature and how invested they are in you.
    hth

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    Default Re: Two girls sitting together at the bar

    Quote Originally Posted by shortandgoofy View Post
    Some find this scenario the easiest, and some (like me) the hardest. The textbook says, obviously, that you go in with a wingman, and just casually start talking to them both, and share good laughs, and then things magically fall into place. Except that, just the last part does not happen. I have done that s*** many times - yes, it definitely works if all you want to do is chill out for some time with two pretty girls, but that's about it. This is why PUAs don't follow the usually-broadcasted "textbooks", right?

    So, here's my question - how do I make the most of this scenario? My goal is to - start a conversation, leading to any kind of close (N/K/F - any!) Additional points - I often venture out by myself, and I do not want that to be a deterrent. Usually, when I get asked why I am by myself, I say the prepared lines - "Meh, I was here with my friend, but he's seriously the lamest guy ever. He left because he had work in the morning!" and then proceed to cook an opener with how lame this "friend out of thin air" can really get.

    But we're digressing from the main point here. So, in summary, here's my question - two pretty girls sitting and drinking at a bar and chatting, and I like one (or both) of them. What's my strategy of approach, conversation, and closing?
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