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    Default Re: Telling girls your intentions ?

    I'm not looking for any relationship with a women at the moment, unless she's more reserved then the girls I usually meet. But I understand, it would of sounded very pathetic if I would come to her and tell her exactly that. Like if it was all the opposite, she would probably not even talk to me anymore haha.

    I have a question though..

    When push/pulling girls, I should basicly throw at them a sarcastic yet funny remark and soon after back the remark with a ''compliment'' to no appear as a jerk?

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    Acting careless is attractif isn't it ? I see guys who talk to girls very directly sometimes being mean to them but the girls laughs it off and they usually get those girls in bed. I reaaally don't get that haha, I do it at times but don't want to go too far to not look like a dick or say anything offensive. I was also told not being reaction seeking is also key.

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    Default Re: Telling girls your intentions ?

    Quote Originally Posted by ablindman9 View Post
    Also..

    Acting careless is attractif isn't it ? I see guys who talk to girls very directly sometimes being mean to them but the girls laughs it off and they usually get those girls in bed. I reaaally don't get that haha, I do it at times but don't want to go too far to not look like a d1ck or say anything offensive. I was also told not being reaction seeking is also key.
    No, not investing too much emotion too soon is. You don't have to act careless - just don't show you're head over heels in love or something early on because it's a turn off to them. He who loves least controls the relationship.

    You don't have to be mean - you should just let them know your intentions and if they don't like it, that's their problem. Move on. You don't have to act like an ass for the sake of attracting a woman. I'd think you're a real chump if you did. However, you should be honest, which at times may seem like you are being an ass to outsiders.

    And yeah, you should act in whichever way you want and her reaction to that shouldn't affect your behaviour.




    Quote Originally Posted by ablindman9 View Post
    When push/pulling girls, I should basicly throw at them a sarcastic yet funny remark and soon after back the remark with a ''compliment'' to no appear as a jerk?
    You should just be honest and say what's on your mind instead of trying to Push-Pull for push-pilling's sake. You see, not a single woman in this world is perfect. So if you always honestly say what's on your mind, you will make both positive and negative comments about her. So push-pull has to occur naturally.

    If you make some stuff up to increase attraction, it's only going to come back at ya later. If you tell her you dislike something about her because you want to push, while you really don't, she'll think you don't like that thing. Women can't read your mind. What you say will be perceived as reality to them. Be honest.


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