Re: Telling girls your intentions ?
I do get what you are saying. And your friend is right. However, those women are NOT all around (and not always the best looking) and even tougher to spot without experience. And even then... she can always change her mind when you get back to her place and half her clothes are off. I'd rather play a solid game to make sure I increase my chances. We got into this game because we got tired of "getting lucky."
So if you do find one that is like that and is attractive then saying "Hey I want to do stuff to you," is very different than saying "Hey when I call you I do it cause I want to hang out with you, I don't want you to think I do because I'm trying to do something with you-..- if anything happens between us then it does, I'm not going to change around you just because of that."
One is being forward/confident and the other is trying to convince her.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."