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Thread: How can I deal with girls who search Validation/fun ?

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    Default How can I deal with girls who search Validation/fun ?

    Basically where I live, most of the girls are like that, mostly the type of girls who like to fark and party all the time.

    There's those rich girls from rich families who have everything they need.

    And there's the girls who search have looks and search attention, either you call them sl*ts or girls that are outgoing.

    I once had to deal with this girl who really just wanted validation, it blew my mind so hard I felt into her games haha, I noticed afterwards and left it at that.

    How do you handle girls like that or what should you do when you spot that out? Thanks.

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    Default Re: How can I deal with girls who search Validation/fun ?

    In a situation like that you do not give her the validation she wants, because if she's hot, most guys are giving her what she wants. If you know what's going on, you should engage in C&F. If she says, "i don't get why so many guys like me?" expecting you to say she is beautiful. Instead you say, I don't get it either and turn away.
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    Default Re: How can I deal with girls who search Validation/fun ?

    Quote Originally Posted by blazeboy View Post
    If she says, "i don't get why so many guys like me?" expecting you to say she is beautiful. Instead you say, I don't get it either and turn away.
    I had a good laugh at that, yeah I got to bring back this player attitude I had. I'll try to keep that in mind, being C&F, not giving her the attention she wants like most other guys do.

    But if you say so, when you approach a girl like that should you neg/C&F her on the spot to make it clear you arn't like the other guys

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    Default Re: How can I deal with girls who search Validation/fun ?

    Quote Originally Posted by ablindman9 View Post
    Basically where I live, most of the girls are like that, mostly the type of girls who like to fark and party all the time.

    There's those rich girls from rich families who have everything they need.

    And there's the girls who search have looks and search attention, either you call them sl*ts or girls that are outgoing.

    I once had to deal with this girl who really just wanted validation, it blew my mind so hard I felt into her games haha, I noticed afterwards and left it at that.

    How do you handle girls like that or what should you do when you spot that out? Thanks.
    If she wants validation from everyone than be a HVM and don't give her any. If she wants it only from u give it to her but not every time she asks for it.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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