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Thread: Dealing with a "maybe" - here's how

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    Default Dealing with a "maybe" - here's how

    Back story - I met her less than two weeks ago. Would have been an easy k-close if I was able to Isolate her. Joking asked her to marry me that night. She accepted. Who wouldn't, right? =p

Anyway, this is how I dealt with her maybe. Copy and paste from FB. You can tell who's who 



    • 
Oh I have to look at the subway map lol



Ill most likely come (:
    • 12:43am


Sorry sweetie, this husband only accepts a yes or a no. No maybes! Thought I married a decisive woman?
    • 12:45am


Haha im quite undecisive sometimes



Im saying most likely bc im tired once I come home at 7 and its like freezing this week



Pick me up 



Jk
    • 12:46am


Lmao, I'm not that easy 



I promise you a fun night, though, so it'll be worth it =]
    • 12:47am


Lmao what does that have to do w picking me up?



U married me so now u gotta take good care of ur wifey lolol



Ahh I gotta go sleep again
    • 12:49am


I'll be back soon so we might have a more productive conversation =p



Have a good night and see you Friday!
    • 12:53am


Yeah since I get on late and leave quickly



I dnt use/like fb much but ill be on 2mrw mayb earlier 



Oki lol goodnight! sweet dreams dream of me (;
    Left the conversation off there. When dealing with a maybe, you don't want to seem arrogant. Confidence and arrogance are separated by a thin line. I got through her maybe, but I didn't do it in an arrogant way. Keep things fun - stay confident, stay alpha, but don't be a d1ck.
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: Dealing with a "maybe" - here's how

    Nice! I can benefit from this.

    Thanks for your insight!

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    Default Re: Dealing with a "maybe" - here's how

    You can tell who's who
    i'll admit i had trouble can you put her / me next time pls :P

    i think ultimately it depends if you want to put up with her crap and continue being fun, or just blatantly straight out request the yes or no because you're busy

    "there's more than one way to skin a cat" <---applies to this

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    Default Re: Dealing with a "maybe" - here's how

    It was like 7 AM here, bro haha. Keep in mind that I'm always grammatically correct and whatnot - you'll see the difference. I got you next time

    Yeah, you have to take into account how long you've been gaming her and if you've closed in any other way. It's all relative!
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    Default Re: Dealing with a "maybe" - here's how

    haha yeah you confused me at the double message part

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    Default Re: Dealing with a "maybe" - here's how

    UPDATE

    Went out with her last week Saturday. She seemed like a solid 8 when we first met, but she turned out to be a 6/7 (AMAZING body; ehh face). Touche, Smirnoff! That wasn't much of a dealbreaker, but it was a disappointment.

    The dealbreaker was that she was looking for something serious based on our conversation. Although she was incredibly receptive to my Kino and flirting, I didn't make any real effort to close. Can't lead them on - ethics
    Always leave her better than you found her.


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