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    Default Approaching Woman In Mixed Sets

    Mixed sets is something I always was quite terrible at so I thought I would enlighten those who are not approaching mixed sets

    First I only use mixed sets as social proof so Im able to bounce from different groups when I'm in my head too much or get blown out. ,also use them to throw targets friends into sets while you Isolate

    1.open the girl being physical and ask for her name (get her name on open lets say her name is Barbra )

    2. Just ask a general question or opinion on something or compliment her on something she is wearing

    3. Turn to the friends and say "who are your friends Barbra?" using her name will make the friends assume you know her

    4. Include the guys less involved in the group so you dont manage the entire group at once with a story or ask where they are from or what they are doing out

    5. Isolate her by saying "let's get a shot or drink"

    6. Say to the friends that you and her are getting drinks and will be right back

    Steps 1-4 can be used to have an active group with you to bounce back too when you need to

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    Default Re: Approaching Woman In Mixed Sets

    1. i like this part, not that this is how i open, or necessarily that i get her name in the opener, but i can see this being beneficial.

    2. i wouldnt compliment her on here clothing, but rather draw attention to it, like "wow you must be cold( thats a beginner line)" or "did you bundle up cuz its cold, or because you dont want anybody to see whats underneath( thats my favorite lately)"

    3. i like this par because its actually a good time bridge between you and her, but if you get her name in the opener her friends will hear and know that you two dont know each other.

    4. its very important to touch even the guys in the first minute, i usually try to Kino them first so they dont get protective of the girls right off the bat. one thing i like to do in mixed sets from the beginning is the cube because it keeps everybodies attention on you long enough for them to get comfortable with you before you Isolate.

    5. isolating a girl in a mixed group isnt hard unless there is already a guy intent on getting with the girl your talking to. it is a good thing though to understand that when there are more than theree people in a group, the conversation will eventually split into two or more sepperate conversations. i can almost guarantee that part. when i want to do that, i just step into the middle of the group and turn to face my target. the rest usually turn and start a different conversation.

    6. unnecessary considering they will be conversing anyways if you do decide to get a drink.
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    Default Re: Approaching Woman In Mixed Sets

    Thanks man glad you liked it !

    6. I use to avoid cock blockers or guys in the group who want to get with her or boyfriend that might be in the set they rationalise in their head that well be back in no time so they wont have a need to get defensive

    2. I use compliments as my soi

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    Default Re: Approaching Woman In Mixed Sets

    yeah i avoid that though because i dont wanna go right back, and if you say youll be back then when you dont they come looking, at least theyre more likely to.

    domt know what soi means but either way, complimenting her right away outs the ball in her court. its not necessarily a dlv, but its not helping much either.
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    Default Re: Approaching Woman In Mixed Sets

    Statement of Intent- so you come from a sexual frame - complimenting from a scarcity mind set or saying it just to impress her is a dlv giving a compliment from a frame of sexual intent and is dhv thats where noobies go wrong its where it comes from. If I put a sexual vibe out she will respond sexually too (law of state transfer)

    You close before they come looking ..you not Fluff talking for an hour

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    Default Re: Approaching Woman In Mixed Sets

    i will agree with that first part, but she doesnt have to respond sexually. in order for that to happen she must be attracted to you sexually, not necessarily because your good looking but because something is attracting her to you. more often than not simply complimenting her is not enough to get her sexual. that takes stimulation. intriguing her is typically a good way to do that which is why i noted that it helps to draw attention to what shes wearing
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    Default Re: Approaching Woman In Mixed Sets

    her replying "thanks" to your compliment isnt sexual.
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    Default Re: Approaching Woman In Mixed Sets

    oh and also, i dont know how your going to manage walking up to the bar, leaving with her or just finding somewhere secluded, fucking her, and getting her back all before her friends go looking for her or she starts worrying that her friends are looking for her. idk about you but ive got a block walk to the parking garage im usually on the fifth floor of.
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    Default Re: Approaching Woman In Mixed Sets

    I agree with dalton, if you let your intent be known too soon in night game when opening a set like this then she knows you want her before she wants you. This makes it harder to build attraction as she's sees everything u say as a way into her pants. Also if u compliment her the guys will know what your after as well, and I have a lot of female friends, and regularly close down guys trying to hit on them, they give me 'the look' to let me know they want him gone lol

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    Default Re: Approaching Woman In Mixed Sets

    Im not saying complimenting is getting her moist dude...your not understanding what it means to set a sexual FRAME ..

    you think a compliment is "oh i like your eyes they are shiny" "nice shoes they look pretty " these are NOT compliments I am talking about

    I'm talking about complimenting from higher value and creating sexual Tension with it ..if you cant do that or know what Im on about then yes it is dlv and you should avoid doing it if you can only deliver a compliment in only one way and should use C&F then


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