So we all know that with a girl your mind perceives as higher value our mind is either flooded or shut down, and we are forced to think of ways to"game" her. I'm going to share a quote that helped me fix this aspect:
"With a girl who you are comfortable with, all you think about doing is pumping your own state."
So next time you've reached that hook point and it's time to vibe, instead of thinking, "what can I say to game her?" Ask yourself, "What can I say or do right now that would get me or keep me in state?"
Even if you do something dumb, when you're in state you can correct it easier than when you're stuck in your head anyway. Hope this helps someone other than me!