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    Default Good mindset to have while talking to girls

    So we all know that with a girl your mind perceives as higher value our mind is either flooded or shut down, and we are forced to think of ways to"game" her. I'm going to share a quote that helped me fix this aspect:

    "With a girl who you are comfortable with, all you think about doing is pumping your own state."

    So next time you've reached that hook point and it's time to vibe, instead of thinking, "what can I say to game her?" Ask yourself, "What can I say or do right now that would get me or keep me in state?"

    Even if you do something dumb, when you're in state you can correct it easier than when you're stuck in your head anyway. Hope this helps someone other than me!
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    Default Re: Good mindset to have while talking to girls

    This is a brilliant way to do it, tbh after a while on a night out I get to a point where I exist solely to entertain myself, and the more fun I have, the more women I close, it's a lovely circle of fun

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Good mindset to have while talking to girls

    Being self amusing is really important and sometimes it is easy to forget when you're in set. So now I'm like, "What should I say or do to keep her interested? Wait... fuck her, what should I do to pump my own state?" Boom.
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    Default Re: Good mindset to have while talking to girls

    Great tips guys!

    Question: What do you guys do when a girl starts yapping on and on? Just met an HB8 today at the coffee shop. I sat down with her, got her comfortable talking, and then she just went on and on about her life. Do you cut them off? I tried, but she didn't seem to ask any follow up questions when I brought things back to my life / interests.

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    Default Re: Good mindset to have while talking to girls

    haha yeah its all about having fun cause then you're not trying too hard. I've found theres a direct corralation more fun = more sucsess vs more effort = less sucsess. No girl wants a gun who seems unnatural and ifyou're having a blast thats the most natural you can be. So my advice is set yourself up for sucsess before hand (ie. reading, learning, inner game, self care) then just go out and have a blast and you'll see increasing reasults.
    In life you get what you put into it.

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    Default Re: Good mindset to have while talking to girls

    Quote Originally Posted by azzmanforever View Post
    Great tips guys!

    Question: What do you guys do when a girl starts yapping on and on? Just met an HB8 today at the coffee shop. I sat down with her, got her comfortable talking, and then she just went on and on about her life. Do you cut them off? I tried, but she didn't seem to ask any follow up questions when I brought things back to my life / interests.
    When you look at it like all you want to do is pump your own state you'll find it easy to interrupt her, you have to control the frame, so I interrupt. I'm dramatic though so being rude and shocking is the way I like to be. Others might give you different advice though.
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