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Thread: Should I take her out for valentines day?

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    Default Should I take her out for valentines day?

    I've known this girl for 2 years. She had a boyfriend until about 8 months ago. We kissed a couple of times after they split up but she said it was bad timing and things didn't go any further. We did become a lot closer friends though and hang out a lot.

    A month ago we started flirting again and I've been sleeping with her for the last few weeks. We've not been on any dates, just hanging out and going for dinner with friends or going to the beach together and going back to mine after.

    I don't know if we're just sleeping together or if there's potential for us to start dating. I could happily date her but there's a good chance I'll be moving away very soon so it's not something I've really thought about anyway. We both seem pretty happy with the situation as it is now.

    But now with Valentines day coming up, I'm wondering if I should be looking to take her out on a date. I don't want to make the wrong move an ask her out for valentines day if that's not the way she sees our relationship going. But as we're also very close friends, I don't want to not ask her if she's expecting it from me.

    Can anyone offer me some advice?

    ps. I hate valentines day for reasons like this. I'd have no problems taking her out for dinner any other day and I know she'd be happy to go. It's just the fact that valentines day has "meaning".

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    Default Re: Should I take her out for valentines day?

    If you have already fucked her then there is no reason not to take her anywhere any day unless you don't want to..

    Alpha up! You want to take her then take her. You don't want to then don't.

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    Default Re: Should I take her out for valentines day?

    Ok, first things first, I never go 'out' for valentines day, there's too much money and it's too cliche. My advice invite her round to your place and cook her dinner, I do this every year and quite regularly as a date anyway because it's a massive dhv women love a guy who can cook. And it's not that hard I promise you don't need to do anything overly romantic like candles and flowers and shit, just cook a nice meal, and curl up on the sofa with a bottle of wine and a film. This is what I do anyway

    Linking x

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    Default Re: Should I take her out for valentines day?

    Quote Originally Posted by threeonethree View Post
    Alpha up! You want to take her then take her. You don't want to then don't.
    I like that, it makes me a lot less concerned about the situation, thanks!

    Linking, thanks as well. I like that idea, unfortunately I've got house mates so that's very rarely an option for me.

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    Default Re: Should I take her out for valentines day?

    Quote Originally Posted by linking View Post
    Ok, first things first, I never go 'out' for valentines day, there's too much money and it's too cliche. My advice invite her round to your place and cook her dinner, I do this every year and quite regularly as a date anyway because it's a massive dhv women love a guy who can cook. And it's not that hard I promise you don't need to do anything overly romantic like candles and flowers and sh1t, just cook a nice meal, and curl up on the sofa with a bottle of wine and a film. This is what I do anyway

    Linking x
    my ex and I's favorite valentines day was spent this way. We both remember it to this day. We were both so broke, but that simple little meal of squash, pork chops and mashed potatoes is something we both never forgot.
    KISS - Keep it Stupid Simple


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