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    Default Need help With Cute Girl in four of my classes

    Ever since I started grad school last semester, there is this one girl I think is so hot. I've spoken to her two times in the past 4 months for maybe thirty minutes total, but obviously there were others in the conversation as well.

    This semester this girl is in four of my classes. I have not been able to get a seat next to her though I have tried. I really want to ask her out, but I don't know how to approach her in/out of class. Usually she's around a clickey group that is very exclusive with who they talk to. However, since she is 20 and they are all 22-24, they don't really talk to her much because she lives with her mom and can't go out to bars/clubs. However, there are tons of guys after her. My problem is that Im short (5'5") and she's like (5'7" or 5'8"). I get a vibe from when I see her and say hi that she likes me but thinks that I'm going out with my best friend that is a girl (apparently everyone at the school thinks this) but its not true.

    Thursday I will try to sit next to her in the next class and start small talk, but if that doesn't work I don't know how to approach her without it being awkward. Any advice would be helpful. Thanks!

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    Default Re: Need help With Cute Girl in four of my classes

    Just directly ask her if she is interested. If she refuse, you don't have a choice.

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    Default Re: Need help With Cute Girl in four of my classes

    Tell her you've noticed her in most of your classes and hint that its more than coincidence and that she's stalking you kinda shit to get the ball rolling

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    Default Re: Need help With Cute Girl in four of my classes

    There are no perfect lines bud, so take a chance and talk to her(screw the small talk!)

    Honestly man take her off the pedestal. As Jonathan22 said if she is not interested so be it, atleast you wont be wasting your time anymore.
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Re: Need help With Cute Girl in four of my classes

    I'm kinda in the same boat. There's a good amount of cute girls in a few of my classes but I have yet to talk to any f them. It's really that simple? Go up to them and talk?

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    Default Re: Need help With Cute Girl in four of my classes

    Or sit next to them and talk to them? thats what I did. You can also maybe catch them before or after class.

    Ask them about the homework(act oblivious) haha or just say something like arent you in my blah blah class? how do you like it?
    Take her off that farking pedestal!

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    Default Day and Day

    The main reason I started looking at this thread was to try and get an answer for the question that has been troubling me. Now I feel like I'm a step closer by looking at this and getting some rough ideas of how to address this situation.

    I have done this before, and the best place I found to start is with chatting about the class. Talk about an assignment, a lecture, or anything. Get on a good to know basis with her. Then, after a class or two, you can shift the conversation to topics outside of it. If she seems unresponsive, I have discovered that saying "Wow, you sure seem energetic today" usually gets a laugh out of her.

    Try this out, and then when there is a test coming up, Number Close on her by asking if she wants to study together for it. Do this, and then report back here with results.
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    Default Re: Day and Day

    Quote Originally Posted by Swagman View Post
    The main reason I started looking at this thread was to try and get an answer for the question that has been troubling me. Now I feel like I'm a step closer by looking at this and getting some rough ideas of how to address this situation.

    I have done this before, and the best place I found to start is with chatting about the class. Talk about an assignment, a lecture, or anything. Get on a good to know basis with her. Then, after a class or two, you can shift the conversation to topics outside of it. If she seems unresponsive, I have discovered that saying "Wow, you sure seem energetic today" usually gets a laugh out of her.

    Try this out, and then when there is a test coming up, Number Close on her by asking if she wants to study together for it. Do this, and then report back here with results.
    Or just go in direct. Women's guards are down in class and they have the sense that they know you, or at least they know something about you, when they are in class. Just tell her you think she's cool/sexy/intelligent and you'd love to grab a drink with her some time.

    The alternative is to make a big long plan to get to know her and try to execute that. I'm lazy, so I prefer the path of least resistance.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Or just go in direct. Women's guards are down in class and they have the sense that they know you, or at least they know something about you, when they are in class. Just tell her you think she's cool/sexy/intelligent and you'd love to grab a drink with her some time.

    The alternative is to make a big long plan to get to know her and try to execute that. I'm lazy, so I prefer the path of least resistance.
    Direct Game is also really good. Very bold, and makes you come across as someone who is not afraid of failure. My only problem with doing it so immediately is if you don't lower their shields first, it will just backfire in your face. First, you have to build rapport and interest. Then, you can start making the moves to get her.

    I would agree though that the shortest path is the easiest path. Sometimes, however, it is not the best path.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Swagman View Post
    Direct Game is also really good. Very bold, and makes you come across as someone who is not afraid of failure. My only problem with doing it so immediately is if you don't lower their shields first, it will just backfire in your face. First, you have to build rapport and interest. Then, you can start making the moves to get her.

    I would agree though that the shortest path is the easiest path. Sometimes, however, it is not the best path.
    My argument is that shields are lowered in class naturally. You have a common interest inherently just by being in the same class. There's a reason so many classmates hook up and it's not because all the guys in the school are PUAs.

    If you don't go in direct you risk someone else doing so and beating you to the punch. Just catch her eye in class, give her a big toothy grin, and then go grab her after class.

    Indirect works too. I just find there is a significantly higher chance of failure with it.
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