I think I should start this post off by describing myself. I am a college student at a large campus(30000+). I am a tall (6'4") rugby player with a light tan skin tone, dark brown hair, hazelnut eyes and I am visibly muscular (210 lbs.). I have no acne or glasses. I have been working proactively over the last several years to hone my appearance with success.
I have only hooked up with two girls so far at college. I got a lot of ridicule from my friends for both hookups; the girls were no better than 3's. My friends keep telling me that I need to aim higher, much higher. They tell me that girls I consider in my league believe that they are out of my league, which surprises me. However, I am starting to believe this because a girl I consider a perfect 10 (a really cute and nice blonde) just started talking to me, with no initial motivation from me. I am posting here because I really do not want to lose this opportunity.
Here is the problem. I straight up cannot talk to girls. I have Approach Anxiety and constantly find myself at a loss for words. About 80% of the girls I pass on the way to class stare at me, and about half of them smile at me. I believe I have the physical look down, now I need the mental agility. I need some serious help on the basics; where to approach girls, when to talk them, how to talk them, etc...Please help me with this cute blonde.
Thank you for any help.