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    Question how to ask out cute tennis girl?

    hello gentlemen,

    some advice is needed. Hate to admit, but still an AFC here So I need some help.

    Met this girl playing tennis. I usually see her once a week playing tennis as part of a group with 6-8 people with a coach just hitting around the court.

    I've talked to a few times, each time quite brief, usually in between drills or when there's a break in the action. Each time she has revealed some interesting info about herself but there simply isn't enough time to keep the conversation going.

    Now I'm very shy, especially when there are others around and I don't want them to notice me hitting on this girl. And worst part is there are other dudes part of the group that may be interested in her as well. So I may have to act fast!

    I was thinking of asking her if she wants "extra practice" in tennis and I could help her out by being her tennis partner, and then go from there, but I'm not sure if it will work because she has friends there already playing with her.

    Any suggestions?

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    Default Re: how to ask out cute tennis girl?

    Why you don't try to be a little bit close with the other guys? and see what is going on there? win they confidence, and then go for her.

    Shoot a couple of tennis neg's such as..your reverse is not good enough and then give her the chance of train with you!
    What do u want to avoid, is the guys asking her "who is that guy? what he want? oh he want to fuck you bla bla bla"
    Remember, keep close your friends, but more close your enemies!!!

    For the moment I will go as you said for the "tennis partner strategy" from there, try to get more info or ioi's and set up the next step!
    Hope that my newbie advise will help you!

    Good luck comrade!

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    Default Re: how to ask out cute tennis girl?

    I'm still relatively new to this myself, but I have mixed feelings about the "extra practice" idea. That's AFC friend-zone material. Being too available by trying to talk every break just makes your social proof look weak. Walk with her after practice, give yourself a false time constraint, and start from there. If you've already given out a lot of IOIs and seen some in return, try a neg or some avoidance to build up your case.

    Hope that helps,
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    Default Re: how to ask out cute tennis girl?

    alright, I had a chance last week but I blew it...I noticed her going to her car too late and couldn't catch up to her. Earlier during our tennis session made some small talk but made it look like I was more focused on tennis than her...

    I'm gonna see her tonight at the courts again...now the pressure is even worst since tomorrow is V-day! ARRGGHH!

    Perhaps if I can get some indication of what she's up to tomorrow, I can guage her interest and ask her out? Is it a good idea to ask a girl out for the very time on V-day??


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