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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Yeah, I live in NY. I'm from Queens (in Whitestone), and go to school in the city. How about you?

    I was gonna take her to a good under the radar sushi place in Queens, but KO Sushi sounds good reading the reviews. That's the one in the upper east located on 70th street, right? She's also from Brooklyn, so maybe taking her somewhere in Manhattan would be a better idea.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Yeah, right by my school - Hunter. I'm near Forest Hills. KO is a great place, but kinda pricey. It'll be an impressive lunch

    Also, as promised, n-closed and set up a date in a "forceful" fashion. Little back story - we know each other, but that's it. Never had more than a 2 minute convo and only saw each other like 4/5 times. She's a complete stranger to me compared to you and this girl. Anyway, fast forwarding to the good stuff:

    Me - You're now obligated to get a drink with me.

    HB - Sure...where?

    Me- there's a place a block away.

    Skipping all the Fluff and whatnot

    Me - I'll see you Thursday, then. We'll get some food and go for drinks. Let me get your number.


    Simple as that
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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Wow, you're not that far away. I go to Baruch.

    I'll continue what I have been doing and remind her if she's still on for Saturday (or Friday).

    Also, how do I go about charming her now that I know she's shy? I was gonna use some things I learned from here, but knowing that she's shy could force me to alter some things around. I read that one of the things shy girls do is avoid eye contact with you when talking (which she has done a few times), and even more so if she likes you.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Just get her talking. Find what she likes and have her talk about that and she'll get comfortable with you and begin to open up more.My thing with shy girls is to call them out on it:

    "What are you so quiet for? You act like I'm gonna steal your kidney or something." (said with chuckle/smirk)

    "You're being too quiet...here, I'll shut up. You start talking...ready? GO!" (Smile)

    It'll get her talking. Also, if you're stuck, I recommend this: How To Engage Her And Get Her Talking
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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Gotcha!

    Curious to see how it goes tomorrow. I'll let you know..

    Btw, what are some good dishes to order from KO Sushi? Your recommendation of Fried banana (only thing I saw on the dessert menu that's "fried") is noted : )

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Banana? I said ice cream haha. All of their rolls are really good, so don't stress. The food won't disappoint. You just have to get her talking and working on at least a k-close that day
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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Update:

    Things went from promising to basically a disaster. When she entered class, I smiled and said hi. She said hi in a low tone and then looked away and took the seat not next to me, but two seats away from me. I didn't even let that bother me (she's shy), lol. I did notice her glance at me for a few seconds a couple times when I looked at the corner of my eye. I thoguht she would try to storm out of class lol, but waited for her after class and we talked for a bit *blah blah.* I asked her if she liked the sassy-pants nickname and she's like what (total bs claiming she didn't think she got the text).. I then asked her if we were still good to go on Saturday, and she said oh no, because something happened to a friend of hers and wants to be there for "him." I told her okay and maybe next weekend. Then she went to the bathroom and said goodnight.

    The friend story is more than likely clearly bullsh1t and was said to probably make me move on. I'm thinking of moving on from her, but I know she's shy and she's afraid. What do I do? Lol, why did she even say okay to my date in the first place? I do think I might have made a mistake asking her out too soon (knowing she's shy), but I don't think I did anything else wrong. It's all her basically.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    At the very least, I don't believe I've spooked her or anything (otherwise she would have tried to avoid me after class), but she's either playing very hard to get, needs time, or not as interested as I thought. I texted a few of my buddies and they claim that I should move on from her completely, and one claimed I should have gotten to know her more before asking her out. My best friend claims she's playing hard to get (lol).

    I'm considering getting to know her more without the pressure of having to go out with her so to speak. Any ideas on this Vicodin? I'm learning how to date someone and date a shy girl at the same time, lmao -_-

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    You know, not every excuse a girl makes for a cancellation is BS. Give her the benefit of the doubt as you don't know her well enough. IMO, it's never too early to ask a girl to hang out (different than asking her on a date - at least to her). Take this time to get to know her. Send her a text over the weekend and express a little interest towards her situation with her friend.

    I recommend talking to her in class via notes. Take out a piece of paper and start a conversation there. How do you do that if she sits a seat or two away from you? Make a surprised face, look at her, and just say, "You just left me all alone...thanks, Satan." Now you have a new nickname

    Just relax, man. Don't overthink and try to have fun with it! There will be SEVERAL more like her, so don't stress.
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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Lol, I thought about sending a text like that and didn't know if I should. I'll send it on Saturday. I was gonna give her the benefit of the doubt, but before that, said she didn't get my text. But I'll send that text and if she did lie, I guess she'll feel pretty bad about it lol.

    So overall, from what I said. Do you think she's playing hard to get? Seeing as she is shy, maybe she's trying to gauge just how far I'll go to be with her, which I know is generally not recommended around here as everyone prefers you moving on instead of trying to chase something to that extent : P


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