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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    You're human - not a robot. You're allowed to care, man

    I don't think she's playing anything with you. I believe she's being genuine with her excuse. Before jumping to conclusions, you shouldget to know her more. I tend to not pay attention to anything in the beginning because it can and will throw me off my game. Once you get to know the person, you'll be able to make accurate judgments about whether or not they're being genuine.

    If you choose to drop it, I recommend giving it one more shot regardless of how you think it'll turn out. If you drop it, you won't know what could have happened nor would you have learned anything. Keep trying, but as a learning experience.
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Double post................ .....

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    I guess you're right, I don't want to be fixated on one chick, but I also don't give up that easily : P

    What do you think I should text her exactly? She claimed she didn't get my text from a couple days ago.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    "Hey, Satan! You're definitely missing out on this sushi right now =p How's your friend doing, btw?"

    That might be a little insensitive, but hey, play with that framework and make it work for you. Assuming she's receptive and has a soul/sense of humor, you can follow up with: "I'll try saving some for you, but there's no guarantee it'll reach you unless you [set up another date]"
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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Haha, that's good, but I don't think I'll be sending her that (not right now anyways).

    I'll try to chat with her through texting a bit. Maybe that fact that she's shy, it might actually work to my advantage. I'll give it a shot in a couple days.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    So I couldn't wait (lol), I texted her tonight and for an excuse to ask her which lab manual book is the correct one? (well, not really, I haven't bought the other book yet and was wondering if it was the correct one)

    Me: Hey what's up? Have a question about the lab manual book, wondering if you can help.

    Her: Sure what is it

    Me: Are the authors Carla Federici and Carla Riga?

    Me: Amazon has one with that, and the title is "Ciao! Lab Manual."

    Her: Ya its the lab manual one!!

    Her: And carla riga is the author

    Me: Thanks!

    We texted for very little afterwards. At the end, I also text her saying "Also, I'm sorry if I made you nervous or anything this past Monday. I probably asked you out way sooner than I would have liked. But it's hard for me to wait for something that I like : ) I do hope I can get to know you better. Maybe hang out sometime.. Anyways, I'm going out with friends to eat. Hope your friend is alright, btw. Goodnight."

    Hasn't responded back, but I expected that.

    Yeah, maybe a little AFC there, but with this girl I don't think it really matters. She also seems to be even way more awkward during texting than in person (didn't think that was possible).

    This was my attempt to get the pressure off her and not needing a date or anything. Critique Vicondin? I now believe she's socially awkward at this point and does like me, but has NO CLUE how to proceed (hell, I might actually even be the first guy that's ever asked her out). If she's really not into me, then she should just say so and I'll move on. With her way of thinking, she might not want to tell me no and hurt my feelings (she wouldn't be, but that's how she might be perceiving it as).

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Also, I'm sorry if I made you nervous or anything this past Monday. I probably asked you out way sooner than I would have liked. But it's hard for me to wait for something that I like : ) I do hope I can get to know you better. Maybe hang out sometime.. Anyways, I'm going out with friends to eat. Hope your friend is alright, btw. Goodnight.

    Oh noes...not a little...major AFC
    Never spill your guts like that to a girl...IMO

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Well this train just derailed.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    To Fly:

    Didn't I basically do that when I asked her out this week? She knows I already like her.

    Read through the whole thread, you'd think I'd have sent a text like that if it wasn't warranted?

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    You just spilled your guts to a girl you were worried you "spooked" only a few posts ago. If she wasn't spooked before she sure as hell is now. Let me translate your text into girl talk for you:

    "Sorry I am socially awkward. I'm just clingy, needy, and have no patience like a young child, so it's difficult for me to control my impulses. Anyways, you didn't go out with me last week when you thought I was kind of normal, but now that you know I'm actually really needy do you want to hang out some time?"

    Seriously, this went as south as it could go after you sent this text.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."


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