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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Basically, do you think I should only talk to her during and after class from now on? Zero texting as well (unless she texts first for some reason).

    I was considering calling her out on being shy next time I saw her after class, lol. I could have told her that I used to be the same way when I was younger, and so I know what you're going through..etc..

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Honestly, I think you should just bail, be friendly when you see her dont be a jerk, but don't try to have a conversation with her. Don't sit next to her. Get some space from her for the next few weeks. No contact unless she contacts you. Then when you re approach a few weeks from now. HAVE A DIFFERENT APPROACH!!! Be a STRONG, CONFIDENT, ALPHA MALE and have no feelings or emotions attached to the approach. Basically im saying dont go back to her until you go on dates with other girls and she doesn't mean as much to you. If she doesnt mean as much and you are going out with other girls she will smell it on you, the confidence and the dominance. Thats your only shot in my opinion.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Honestly, I think you've probably fucked this one up and you should move on. If she comes to you great, otherwise just leave it alone.

    As for calling her out on being shy and then tell her how you used to be the same. That is also lame. The way you describe it it sounds like she has a disease. You should have just straight up called her out on being shy and awkward. It could have been as simple as this:

    (Context: You're having a conversation with her and she's being shy and awkward)

    You: "Hey! Stop being so shy and awkward." (with a smile on your face)
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    I honestly think it was already 50-50 (maybe 40-60, 30-70) with her, she was throwing so many mixed signals that it just got too confusing even for me (making me sent that text as well). It's clear she either had a traumatic experience with guys (or guy) in the past, or is very inexperienced in general.

    Probably for the best that I move on anyway. I won't get rid of her completely, but she won't be priority at this point.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Yea man,
    Hold your head high, pick yourself up. Take what you have learned here and move on. Maybe youll get another chance, but dont count on it. What kind of reading have you been doing on gaming?

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Haven't read any books, yet.....

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Well it depends how serious you want to get about this, but if you want to get serious I suggest doing a bit of light reading. I have plenty of suggestions if you are interested PM me.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Sure, I'll do that.

    Do you think I could still talk to her after class, but without bringing up the fact that we should hang out sometime/date her/ etc. It'd basically show I won't cut off all contact with her, but I won't pursue anything further than that. Texting is already out of the question, lol. Unless she actually sends something first.

    Also waiting for Vicodin to chime in, curious what he will say.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    I wouldn't chat with her besides very small talk and just saying hi. Being polite basically. And yes absolutely get more guys opinions!! Never just take one persons advice.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Next time you have class make sure you get there before she does, then see what she does when she comes in. If she purposely avoids you, then you know exactly how things have gone. If she sits beside you and engages you, then that's a good sign.
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