Yep, she might. And then you have your answer and you can move on with your life and chalk this up to the great learning experience it has been.
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."
To be fair, though. I honestly have no clue how she'll interpret that text. Heck, she might be even be happy that she won't be pressured to go onto a date, and be content with hanging out for now. Her way of thinking is very unpredictable from what I've seen.
Wow, three other New Yorkers in here haha.
But yeah NYkid90, even if she was sending you awkward and mixed signals, you should never try to send a text like that. However, I read that the next class after you asked her out she sat away from you? That either means she's not interested in you, or does actually like you, especially when you mentioned that she glanced over at you a couple of times for a few seconds.
At this point, that text was a bit of a killer, but you shouldn't give up totally. I would still try to chat up with her for a bit, but pull back the reigns. Also, if you're gonna text her, don't send her something like that again haha. Try taking like a 2 week absence from texting her ..though.
The thing is, I kinda know what this guy is going through. Shy girls can really, and i mean really be hard to get a read on from prior experiences. I don't really fault the guy for messing up with that text. Sounds like she was driving him crazy.
Who knows...that text might actually be a positive for him if that chick thinks of it differently than what we do.
now, i don't fault anyone, but common txt? if you go to class with her keep txts to a minimum and do everything you need to do in class with her.
I am a solid believer that txts are necessary when you are not in contact with her in a regular basis but if you go to class just "plow" through her resistence of shyness, and show her she could have a good time with you if she put the time into it. if not, walk away.
NEVER OPEN UP OVER A TEXT MESSAGE. THAT IS AS AFC AS IT GETS.
Keep that in mind. From now on, you never text anything like that to anyone. It shows qualities that women don't want to see - neediness ("I just met him, what does he want from me?"), insecurity ("why is he texting me this instead of saying it in person?"), and beta male ("why isn't he having a better handle on his emotions? Does he take everything so personally? Is he always this sensitive?"). I think you get the point.
You NEED to read up on the texting guides here. There are two great ones (conversation bible and GnG's guide that I'm too lazy to link because I'm on my phone) that will help you beyond belief.
Fly and Duke were on point with everything. You probably did screw it up, but it's ok. This is all a learning experience.
As for what to do next - stop texting her. If you didn't notice, the recurring theme behind the texts I kept telling you to send was to tease her a bit, get her comfortable, and set up a date. That's it. You texted her because you wanted to talk to her, I get it. Hell, I was there not too long ago. Some advice that was given to me - "have an objective when you're texting a girl." Game is always done better in person, so use texting to get that to happen.
I think we covered texting extensively - perhaps to the point where that word has become nauseating and sounds awkward. That little voice in your head resents having to see texting everywhere. Texting. Texting.
On a serious note, there's something here that I will link you to from my phone - http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...ame-rules.html
READ THAT. UNDERSTAND IT. LIVE IT. Can't stress the importance of that post enough. You're slowly on your way to oneitis. Deny it if you want, but I've been there not too long ago so I know the signs
Seriously, man - read it and understand it. Apply it to your game and allow yourself to assimilate that Mindset.
Last edited by Vicodin24; 02-08-2013 at 01:40 AM. Reason: Sleep deprivation
Always leave her better than you found her.
Thanks for the advice, Vicodin!
So in your opinion, do you think I have any shot in hell in the future with her? Basically, I won't be texting her anymore (least not for a long time), and only will make some small talk after class if at that.
I'm curious - any updates with this girl?
Always leave her better than you found her.