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    Default How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    So just started the spring semester and there's this pretty decent to good looking girl in my class (about a HB 7.5-8).

    We meet twice a week (Mon and Wed's) and the first week just passed by. First day, I didn't talk to her at all, but this past Wednesday we talked for a bit after class ended and I walked with her for a bit until she went to the bathroom and we said good night. We mainly talked about how expensive the book for the class is and what classes were taking. Also talked about the country she was from a bit and what languages are generally hard to learn in general. She seemed to be in a talkative mood, so there's probably a bit of an interest there. I don't have her number yet, though. I definitely should have that before asking her out. I'm wondering if once I get the number that I also schedule a date, or wait a bit to do that as to not do everything at once. First date will definitely be either lunch or coffee (dinner will be the potential 2nd or 3rd date). As for her having a boyfriend, I don't know, but I don't think she does.

    So yeah, that's basically it. Any tips on number closing and then asking her out will be helpful. Thanks!

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Number closing is the easiest thing in college. Just ask for her number without making it seem awkward and be funny about it.

    "We have a problem - I have no one to complain to about all these conjugations...thank s for volunteering!" (give her your phone as you say this)

    "Hey, put your number in here so I can tell my mom l made a friend."

    My personal favorite is assuming they already have my number and just telling them to text/call me before they get to class or, if it's a night class like yours, when they get home. The reply is along the lines of not having the number in which case you put yours in and get theirs. Make sure to put a funny name into their phone. Just yesterday, I put "Eddy the greatest person in the world" in a girl's phone. Makes for good conversation

    As for asking her out, don't ask in a typical fashion. Get creative.

    "You. Me. Coffee. Now. K? K."

    "You're obligated to get coffee with me right...now!"

    "Hey, I'm feeling hungry and since you refuse to cook for me, we're getting (food)"
    Always leave her better than you found her.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    The next step would be now that you know her, to comfortable take a seat next to her in class. Don't show her TOO much interest. Be cocky/funny and work on your body language. Try to work a little Kino in class (bump legs, eye contact when you talk, shoulder touch, etc.) Then use any # close after class or on the break.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    To Vicodin: Wow, does that approach actually work? What if she has a class afterwards or something? What if she finds me strong forcing her or something? Lol. And the Number Close and nick name in my phone is something I just read about (Thanks to T-mal).

    To Fuser: I already sit behind her in class. And there's another guy sitting next to her (who I highly doubt is interested in her anyways). It was only the first week, so I probably could get that seat if it comes down to it this week. And I'm always a bit of a joker in class that makes people laugh, so being funny is no problem for me : )

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Keep a fun vibe going - she won't find anything wrong with it. I do that all the time to meet up. If you'd like, I'll use the most "forcing" one on a new girl next week and let you know how it goes.

    If she has a class afterwards, that's no problem, either. You should take the time learn her schedule, anyway. You never know until you try something, man. Always go for it.
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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Sure man, try it and let me know how it goes! It's just every girl is different, and some may look at it like you're dictating her schedule. However, I do think this one won't have a problem with it : )

    Only problem is I don't want to ask her out with a chipped front tooth lol -_-. My front tooth broke when I was 12 messing around with friends. The filling recently died out and got chipped a few days ago (so I'm getting a crown done now). The appointment is TBD cause of the insurance company I'm dealing with (probably in like 2 weeks will I get it done).

    Also, considering ioi's. I haven't particularly seen or heard one, but she did re-engage conversation after I stopped talking for a second (asked me what classes I took after I asked her).

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    UPDATE:

    So we had class tonight. When she first entered in the door I told her good afternoon, miss.... in Italian and she laughed. I took the seat next to her and it was all good from there. I asked her if you want to share the textbook (as she hadn't gotten hers yet), was my partner when we needed to ask each other four questions in Italian, etc. I thought it went well and after class, as she was about to leave, I asked her what she was doing this weekend (said she didn't know yet) and she laughed for a second, I then asked her "I hope you like sushi cause there's this awesome Sushi place I want to take you to." She laughed again for a second, but said okay. When she was about to leave I asked for her phone number in case something came up and when she gave it to me, I told her your nickname for your last name is sassy-pants (got it from here) and told her good night. Like 15 minutes later, I text her "Good night, Sassy-pants =)" in Italian (also got my phone number too that way)

    Question is, any reason why she laughed when I asked her out? I'm thinking it was most likely a nervous laugh/giggle and was shocked someone actually asked her out (I don't think she's a bitch from observing her in three classes so far), but do you think that maybe I asked her out to soon? She's not interested in me that much? At the very least, I know she doesn't have a boyfriend (or even if she does, doesn't like him that much or is breaking with him)

    Thoughts??? Thank you.

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    That's fantastic, man! Great job. Could have been a nervous chuckle or something, but she agreed to the date, so don't look for problems when there aren't any. You did well. Keep it up!
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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    Quote Originally Posted by Vicodin24 View Post
    That's fantastic, man! Great job. Could have been a nervous chuckle or something, but she agreed to the date, so don't look for problems when there aren't any. You did well. Keep it up!
    Thinking about it more, it definitely had to be a nervous laugh. Observing her for three classes and after class, she's DEFINITELY shy. I think she was caught off-guard by me asking her out (even though I gave her like 3-4 ioi's in class lol). Seems like she almost never gets asked out. And like you said, she did say okay to the date.

    Also, after I have class with her on Wednesday, should I bring up the date again and ask if we're good to go on Saturday? I ask because she might end up being busy or something, so I want to be sure. I'll hardly be texting her as that could constitute neediness.

    Also Vicondin, how did your fast approach go? =)

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    Default Re: How to ask out this girl in my Italian class

    I like confirming a few days in advance and the day of, so yeah. Instead of asking directly, assume the plans are already set in stone for her and ask her what kind of sushi she likes and whatnot. Tease her about it a bit, but don't be a douche.

    When I take girls out for sushi, I always mention fried ice cream. They love that stuff especially if they've never had it. Depending on where you are in NY (if you're actually there), I recommend Chikurin in BK or Queens or KO Sushi in the city They never disappoint

    As for the "fast" approach, I did a cold approach for the hell of it, but didn't feel like n-closing. I'm gonna use the "...tell my mom I made a friend" one and then the one about not cooking for me haha. I'll definitely let you know this week as long as classes aren't suffocating me!
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