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    Default Re: The Topic of "Is she interested in me"

    Always assume the girl is into you, even if you just get the smallest ioi. And know that the only way to learn is to fail. Crashing and burning is the best thing you can do to help your Game.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: The Topic of "Is she interested in me"

    You are completely right. I have had and continue to have some problems with this. As soon as I get anything less than a great reaction I get a bit self conscious. It ends up killing my game or they can read it on my face. I'm working on it and getting much better. I also assume they want me to kiss them and touch them. I have really started just accepting that, and going in for the kiss and not second guessing touching them. I have had GREAT results!!!! I just gotta work on my conversational frame now. Step by step my friend!!

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    Default Re: The Topic of "Is she interested in me"

    Everything is an ioi!!!

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    Default Re: The Topic of "Is she interested in me"

    Basically, I've learned that even if she isn't interested in you initially, or is hardly giving any ioi's, that doesn't mean you give up. Only do so if she's very adamant that she's in a loving and happy relationship with someone lol.

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    Default Re: The Topic of "Is she interested in me"

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    Default Re: The Topic of "Is she interested in me"

    Only give up on ex's who aren't giving you ioi, the time has passed with them, let go and move on.

    For other women, if they don't seem interested, don't keep badgering them but leave them be but with them lays the opportunity to see how you interact with others. This will be especially true if women on a night out, women friends and colleagues.

    Never force a woman to change, she needs to believe she has changed her own mind. Instead, give her reason to change her mind by staying true to your values, having fun and acting as if you could live without her, even if you have Beta days where she is the 'one'.

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    Default Re: The Topic of "Is she interested in me"

    Although I agree with alot of things your saying in theory I think in practice asking the question is she interested in me isn't stupid.

    1) They give alot of information on how they view things and how they experience things. It can show you possible flaws or mistakes they made and give you a sense of how they view the world and what aspects may be withholding them from succes with women.

    2) They get an outlet for all this insecurity and nervousness that comes with the game of love and attraction. In this way it's less likely to affect their "game".

    3) Telling people it's béta to ask this question is just as stupid as asking the question. The alpha male - domninance theory is scientifically out dated as hell. The people asking this kind of questions can be more dominant and alpha in certain situations then you. The lowest ranking member of a group of social animals can become the dominant/alpha animal just by changing the environment (even removing one group member).
    The alpha male concept is great for teaching men behaviour that's desirable for many women but believing certain behaviour is aplha or béta is just stupid. You can be the most succesfull alpha male at this moment but one tiny change in environment can make you the biggest loser in no time even though you still posses all the so called alpha male behaviour.

    I think you have to realise that these questions are just frustrating for you because you're on a different level then they're. But for the people asking them these questions are usefull and serve them to progress.

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    Default Re: The Topic of "Is she interested in me"

    Quite profound M_ROCAL. Quite profound indeed.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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