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    Default Seal the deal post IOI's

    Here is an advanced technique that works for me pretty well:

    If you have ever been in the situation where you already have gotten strong ioi's from a girl and you are pretty sure she is down to go home with you but you don't know what to say, here is what I do. (Remember this works best if the girl is already on the hook but can also be used to steer her there early in the connection).

    With a degree of nonchalant confidence, lean into her and slowly and as smoothly as you can muster say something to the degree of;

    "I am having a blast tonight, are you?" (you want her saying yes before the investment move).

    When she answers yes you say;

    "I have a crazy idea, I can't believe I am saying this but I think we should get out of here and go back to my place (or hers, up to you and the vibe you get from her)".

    Then a brief pause and before she answers, playfully but confidently say;

    "But you are free to turn down an amazing night of sexy fun if you like" and then smile and sit back.

    I have used this technique to seal the deal quite a few times and even when it doesn't work right away it still plants the idea that you are a boss, you are confident that she will have a great time with you and in her head you will be perceived as the type of guy who respects her decisions (which is an appeal to safety, something that all women need to feel before they are going to sleep with you).

    You can also work in the "but you are free to" line earlier in your game but I don't recommend using it before getting some IOI's or you are likely to get neg'd. Something I learned in my brief car sales career is that you want people saying yes before you seal the deal, doesn't matter what they are saying yes to, you just want them to agree with whatever statements you are making. That doesn't mean you have to be agreeable, you just want them to agree with you not vise versa.

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    Default Re: Seal the deal post IOI's

    Interesting idea, though the whole thing comes off as a little needy to me. For instance, by saying "I'm having a great time, are you?" it seems like you're seeking validation. Then telling her that she's free to turn you down also strikes me as a bit odd.

    Is there a reason you think this works better than just straight up asking her to come home with you, or trying to do a bounce and then asking her to come home with you?
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Seal the deal post IOI's

    I don't do ONS's much any ore however whenever I did I found the best way to get a girl to come home after you get the right ioi's is:
    You: (take hand and starting walking out) come on
    Her: where we going?
    You: out of here it's boring, we'll get a drink at mine instead, plus I can't hear myself think

    And that's it, it isn't foolproof by any stretch of the imagination but I don't think there is anyway of doing this that is and that's the way I had best results with. It's like the assumptive Number Close, she's more likely to say yes if it looks like your expecting her to. Because I agree with the duke that the way you described seems a little bit needy and validation seeking.

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