Hello guys. I'm here because I've noticed that one of my biggest problems socially is carrying a conversation with both men and women in general.
I can make good eye contact and my body language isn't bad it's just I run out of things to say and when that happens I often break eye contact to prevent things from being more awkward than they already are.
I feel like my conversation is sometimes coming off to sound to forced, saying things that are non interesting sometimes just so the conversation doesn't die. I can be somewhat okay if I'm in an environment with many interesting things but even so I don't wanna let my environment limit my conversation.
I'm often okay in groups of 3 or 4 people because there is a lot less pressure put on me but even then I feel like sometimes I have trouble finding the words for what I'm trying to say.
I feel like my conversations in the end one on one always end with a girl thinking I am boring and non interesting. I don't want to ask her to many questions because then it feels like an interview. I also don't want to talk about myself because I get a feeling that she would non-interested.
Logical conversation topics are usually boring to girls I feel but at the same time I feel like I don't have the creativity to come up with interesting responses to illogical conversation when I am on the spot. This often leads me in a situation where I am unable to respond to whatever it is that the girl is saying and once again I feel socially inadequate.
What should I do guys? I don't want to keep talking to girls and make the same mistakes. Is it simply that creativity that I'm lacking? Some people can come up with great response lines almost spontaneously as if it were natural. They're both creative and ultimately funny. Is this something I should be working for when holding conversations?
Ultimately I feel like I just don't know how to respond to many things even with logic and that's obviously boring.