Re: rejected or scared??
Exactly as Duke said. You over-calculated that way too much. You saw a girl who you thought had an interest in you, you chocked up when you thought about it, and then you betrayed you. If you want to have success with women and have a strong sense of confidence, you must have trust in yourself. You must be able to tell yourself "Hey, I am natural, and I will be natural, and if I fail to get her there are more women in the world".
Be bold, be confident, go in there and get her. Simple as that.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X