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    TsterHale is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Starting with daygame, I need some opinions.

    Hi guys, today I made my first approach, let me tell you: IŽ, starting with this pick up thing so I started with daygame, I saw this beutiful girl walking in the street and I decided it was time to let my fear go, I came over to her and said "Hi, I saw you back there and I wanted to tell you that you are really cute" she just said thanks, I asked her name, then I introduce myself and she just go away.
    I think abut it all night and came up with some conclusions:
    1. First of all she was about to cross the street so it was a bad time to approach
    2. I was really nervous, I swear she was really beutiful! and I was kind of trembling.
    I want to know what you guys think and I would appreciate some suggestions. thanks.

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    Default Re: Starting with daygame, I need some opinions.

    Man u did a good job 4real ..fake it till u make it real . U'll jst get over the fear easily if u continue doin that

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    Default Re: Starting with daygame, I need some opinions.

    1. she could have been uninterested.
    2. she could have found your approach tactless.
    3. she could be a lesbian.

    what im getting at here is that you can wonder what went wrong all you want, but it really doesnt matter because you have no way of knowing the real reason in the end anyways, she could have been any number of things but the verdict remains that you were unable to close.

    i do commend you on overcoming your Approach Anxiety, thats the hardest thing for guys to do, if you get over that alltogether, you will be closing in no time.

    so rather than wonder where you go wrong with girls, look at what works and use it, alter what works try out a little of everything and see what works and doesnt. thats a far better way to learn than reading up and diagnosing every encounter you have with women.
    If i get a guy some a$$, he gets it for a day; if i teach him how to get it for himself, he's tappin forever

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    Default Re: Starting with daygame, I need some opinions.

    I agree with Dalton here. You can try to think about everything that went wrong and could have gone wrong. In the end, though, things are what they are, and it's up to you to change it.

    I would like to throw in something more on this. The idea of being fake is a really bad idea. A good majority of the time, girls will appreciate it when guys are genuine. When you're natural, it's easier to entertain yourself, keep the conversation going, and build rapport.

    Have you ever noticed that you find it easier to approach people when you're in a really good mood and you're confident? A really good pick up artist is able to harness these good feelings all the time. In the long term, it will build up as you get better with approaching women. There is a quicker way though. This way is to live in the moment. Enjoy things as they are, scream out in your head "FEEL GOOD! BE HAPPY! BE ENERGETIC!" and whatever else helps you to get pumped up. I personally let out a few "YEHAWS!" in my head when I need a boost of energy, and I have found that to be incredibly helpful.

    Another thing for you to improve on is to not over-calculate things so much. The more you plan about what the end will be, the more you will stop yourself now. When you do this, you ultimately betray yourself and you screw up because you lose your naturality. Trust yourself, and let you be you.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    scguitar is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Starting with daygame, I need some opinions.

    Quote Originally Posted by TsterHale View Post
    Hi guys, today I made my first approach, let me tell you: IŽ, starting with this pick up thing so I started with daygame, I saw this beutiful girl walking in the street and I decided it was time to let my fear go, I came over to her and said "Hi, I saw you back there and I wanted to tell you that you are really cute" she just said thanks, I asked her name, then I introduce myself and she just go away.
    I think abut it all night and came up with some conclusions:
    1. First of all she was about to cross the street so it was a bad time to approach
    2. I was really nervous, I swear she was really beutiful! and I was kind of trembling.
    I want to know what you guys think and I would appreciate some suggestions. thanks.
    What most likely went wrong is she could tell by your body language that you were nervous, and was not interested. It's ok. It'll get better as you get over aa. But honestly it could have been any reason in the world so no need to worry about it. Good job though, you had a good opener. Keep it up.


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