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    Nohide is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Help with a girl in my Stats class

    Incoming wall of text, because I figured the more specific, the easier it is to help

    There's a cute girl in my stats class whom I met a couple of weeks ago, she's a part of an organization I joined. After that, we started talking before and after stats class. She showed interest in the conversations, so I asked if she wanted to grab lunch after class. She said she had to drop a class and study for another class so she couldn't. Okay, that was just one little strike, still up to bat.

    We had an exam next week on Friday(which was actually last week) and so I asked if she wanted to study buddy for it, she said yes please.

    We ended up studying after class on Wednesday, I used it as an opportunity to get to know her better and vice-versa, cracked up made dumb nicknames and gave her my number in case she had questions for the test. We started getting hungry, asked her if she wanted to grab lunch, she said she better eat at home because she had so much food there, that he parents would be pissed if she didn't finish that food before going out.

    Next day, there was a bowling night with the organization and I used it as an opportunity to gain some social proof with her friends, since she had alot of friends in the organization that were there. It went great, all of her friends loved having me there, made them all laugh etc.

    Next day, we have our exam, and swap some words about how we feel we did on the test, and as we part ways, I tell her to text me sometime.

    My question is what now? She has my number, I don't have hers. Already turned down my lunch request twice. Do I just lay low for now, so I don't seem over-bearing, or be more direct? Not really sure.

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    Default Re: Help with a girl in my Stats class

    I try to be as honest as I can when I reply, because that's what helps the most.

    You're not in a favorable situation with this girl unfortunately. This happens a lot in college, and I've been in the same situation a few times. It's called the friendzone.

    I wouldn't have asked her out to lunch, that seems too "date-y" to me.
    Study session was a great idea, you should have gotten her # afterwards though, not given her yours.
    Do you sit next to her every day in class? Or walk up to her afterwards and try to make convo?
    The latter one is typically not recommended.

    Here's how to fix it (but this doesn't always work, be warned):
    Break off all contact for two to three weeks. When you see her at your organization, start up a conversation (not during class). Ask her if she parties. (If you don't party, start.) If she says no, say 'wow you're boring, do you study all the time'. Try to get her # (But if she truly doesn't ever go out, she's not the type that can be picked up anyway, and personally I would drop her.)
    However, she will probably say yes, in which case you should be able to easily get her #. Make the excuse that you're going partyng that weekend and if she's also going out you could meet up. (If she makes an excuse not to give you her #, she's not interested, move on.) Anyway, text her that weekend to find out where she's going, say you might hit up there later so maybe you'll see each other. Show up, and if she's at all interested it should be a slam dunk. You can game her at a party MUCH easier. Good luck!

    -amazingJay

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    Default Re: Help with a girl in my Stats class

    Alright

    You're probably right with the date-y thing, thanks for the tip so I know to avoid that for now on. I sit next to her in class, not the second one. I'm fairly sure there is almost no party scene at this school too, so the second half of your advice might be a little tough. (The reason I transferred here was because it didn't have a party scene, seeing as I was slacking too hard at my old party college)

    Edit: But while I try to figure something out, I'll drop contact

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    Default Re: Help with a girl in my Stats class

    Yeah that's a tricky situation. I still suggest keeping conversation to a minimum while still coming off as normal and friendly, and then initiating a real conversation at your organization after a few weeks. I don't think I'm really qualified to give you advice on how to proceed from that point though, considering I rely very heavily on our party scene to meet up/hook up with girls. Best of luck.

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    Default Re: Help with a girl in my Stats class

    Quote Originally Posted by amazingJay View Post
    Yeah that's a tricky situation. I still suggest keeping conversation to a minimum while still coming off as normal and friendly, and then initiating a real conversation at your organization after a few weeks. I don't think I'm really qualified to give you advice on how to proceed from that point though, considering I rely very heavily on our party scene to meet up/hook up with girls. Best of luck.
    Sounds good, I'll do that. And if anyone has any other ideas for a tame school, I'd appreciate it.


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