I hate threads like this. People come here asking for advice, people give good advice, and then you go ahead and listen to some female friends? Most females know less about what females want than AFCs do. If you ask a girl what kind of guy she wants her ideal is not going to be what she ends up with. This is because females don't have a conscious understanding of what they want.

If you want our advice take it. If not, go talk to your female friends and keep failing on your own time. It's that simple.