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    Thumbs up Drunk Wingman Opener

    Kinda stole this from an episode of 'The Wire.' Always thought that if worked right, it could work brillianlty.

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    Basically your wing walks up to a set (3 maximum,) either acting drunk or actually drunk . He should be acting obnoxiously and offensive to the set but not too offensive as to cause a scene.

    When the set appears to be annoyed you walk in and escort your wing away (not too far so that you're away from the set.) You then go back to the set. Apologise for your friend's behaviour then allowing you to escalate conversation further...

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    Me and a friend are going to give this a run through soon to see how it works. Any input/critique on this would be appreciated.
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    Default Re: Drunk Wingman Opener

    Sounds risky for the wingman.

    And also if your wingman's willing to be a sacrifice that's cool,but after he does that he will probably draw attention to himself and lower his value in that place.

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    Default Re: Drunk Wingman Opener

    Tbh it isn't that great in my experience, I have mates who get really drunk and this has happened to me before. You try to go back and they act really cold and bitchy if your wing annoyed them, and it's hard to turn the energy from negative to positive, basically because you are coming in on a bad vibe it's even harder to get a good interaction than if you were going in at a neutral level.

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    Default Re: Drunk Wingman Opener

    Agree with Linking..
    I've used this one before, my friend was way too drunk, but they just laughed it off. (it was like a 5set). Still it was a good way to get first contact.

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    Default Re: Drunk Wingman Opener

    Quote Originally Posted by darealest5 View Post
    Agree with Linking..
    I've used this one before, my friend was way too drunk, but they just laughed it off. (it was like a 5set). Still it was a good way to get first contact.
    That's what I was thinking it's best for, just initialising contact
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    Default Re: Drunk Wingman Opener

    Yeah but it's a bad way to initiate contact because your going in on a negative vibe, fact is you'd probably do better to even just walk up and introduce yourself lol, if you do well with it then fair enough, I wouldn't advise using it tho

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    Default Re: Drunk Wingman Opener

    Anyone have a good way to turn this into a good thing? I have one friend that comes out with us once in awhile who tends to get too drunk and goes up to groups of girls, but from a far I can see them looking uncomfortable. I feel like knowing what to do to turn the scenario around would be cool, since the whole "drunk wingman opener" unintentionally happens naturally...

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    Default Re: Drunk Wingman Opener

    This has happened to me quite a few times honestly. You can turn this into a positive easier than you think actually. For the purposes of the set, he's not your wing, he's just another obnoxiously drunk guy hitting on them in the bar that night. You come in, calm him down, and send him away (and if you don't know how to calm down drunk people, you better learn how to do it, it's pretty necessary lol). Thereby, you're the cool guy who came in and "saved" them from a bad pickup attempt. Basically, try not to associate with your wing for the purposes of the set. If he says you're buddies, tell the set you just met him. If you have decent or better game, this should be an easy scenario to turn around. Good luck!

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    Default Re: Drunk Wingman Opener

    I've tried 1000 openers. Some cheesy ones, some solid ones, but in the end, I find that "hi", and looking away like I could care less, works almost every time. More girls other girls see me with before I open is usually the one things that increases or decreases my odds of success.

    IMO

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    Default Re: Drunk Wingman Opener

    Delusionalboy,

    You're absolutely right about the concept of preselection (the more of a fun, sociable person you're seen as, the better your chances of a successful open). However, I do not recommend walking up to a set, saying hi, and nonchalantly looking away as an open, although with enough inner game it could work. Not only would this be fairly ineffective in dealing with a drunk wingman, I feel like it would come off as somewhat shy and creepy (at least that's what I'd think of a girl who opened me like this.) That's not to say that many canned openers are exceedingly creepy as well, but I just thought I should clarify so a bunch of people don't start doing this at parties or something lol.


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